Poor Pathetic EJ..., where is your self respect? Options

[FancyLopezFitzge...]

EJ wouldn't be such a LOSER if Sami had at least said that she loved him too.
Instead, Sami tells him she loves Lucas and because he won't give her a chance she's might give EJ a chance. No promises or anything, no declarations of love or anything.

I wonder what would happen to EJ if Lucas changed his mind?

LMFAO! Looks like I missed all the fun. Of course I agree.

[avelina]

Spot on!

Lucas said himself, "you are in love with him, Sami". And for those who did not see that epi, "him" is EJ. Lucas has known it for quite some time.

EJ is not her second choice. Sami feels that she needs to be with Lucas because she is doing this for Allie. Lucas is the one everyone loves and they have Will together.

Also EJ is not pathetic...please. He loves Sami with all his heart. I believe Sami loves Lucas but she is IN love with EJ. They are so paralleling this to John/Marlena/Roman.

I like Nicole but not with EJ. She doesn't know everything about him. She thinks she is the best person because she isn't pushing EJ away. I can see where she is coming from but the man doesn't love her. She was his BC that's all. If they had a relationship it wouldn't because he loved her. I mean he even called Sami name out when they had sex. If anything she should have ended it but she continue. To me she is the real loser. I would have been see ya man but not here.

Go EJami!!!

[doolcanada]

hey EJ....ever heard of sloppy seconds?

[jenesais]

Don't you think that'd be obvious? Only people who hate EJ and Nicole should be calling them that name. I personally can't stand it.

Hee hee hee! We know.

GO ECOLI!


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[1days]

Hee hee hee! We know.

GO ECOLI!


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Yeah and I'm sure if you knew the reason why you'd still laugh.

[chloesgramma]

hey EJ....ever heard of sloppy seconds?

EJ: Why yes, I believe I have heard that term, in the gutter once, referring to what Lucas gets when Sami leaves our love bed and chases after him. Hmmm, funny you'd bring that up here.

Sami hasn't really been with anyone else since she and Ej married. So what's sloppy or second about that? She is his...and her stating she'll always love Lucas is benign....like most women will always have a love somewhere out there. No biggie...at all.

[daydreamgirl]

EJ: Why yes, I believe I have heard that term, in the gutter once, referring to what Lucas gets when Sami leaves our love bed and chases after him. Hmmm, funny you'd bring that up here.

Sami hasn't really been with anyone else since she and Ej married. So what's sloppy or second about that? She is his...and her stating she'll always love Lucas is benign....like most women will always have a love somewhere out there. No biggie...at all.

Yeah but if she had known that Lucas was coming back that night, she would have never slept with EJ. She more or less really "settled" for him because she thought Lucas wouldn't be coming back.

Then when Lucas did come back she left EJ without even a backward glance. Then she has been pretty clear with stating that she wants Lucas, chooses Lucas and wants a future with Lucas.

AND if Lucas had told her that he would give her another chance, forgive what happened with EJ and wasn't so confused about it all. If he told Sami that he loved her and they had a future together, Sami would have DROPPED EJ like a bad habit.

EJ = SUH-LOPPY Second.

[badsamifan]

[quote name='Soaper' date='Aug 15 2008, 02:42 PM' post='3414482']
Sami's only willing to give you a chance (no promises, no declarations of love...for YOU that is) because Lucas, the man she DOES LOVE doesn't want to be with her anymore.

I can't believe EJ is such a LOSER!

How is Nicole different from EJ in this scenario? Nicole went after a guy who only wanted Sami and told her up front that he loved Sami. He slept with her after the pain of a break-up with Sami. He called out Sami's name while sleeping with her. Anyone would know that EJ was not over Sami. Nicole made a choice to ignore everything he said and did and go after him anyway.

[Vicky4Mimi]

Of course Ej is Pathetic. That has been established many times over.

Sami loves Lucas. Ali plays her role as a woman in love with LUCAS. Bryan plays the role of Lucas as a man in love with SAMI. They are separated at the moment but I have zero doubt that they will be reunited.

IF this was an ejami moment--why was LUCAS the main part of the conversation??

Why would Elvis have to ask Sami what her feelings were about Lucas if he DIDNT already know she loved him so very very much?

Sami doesnt have a problem telling men she loves them. So why didnt she tell him she loved him if she did?

SAMI LOVES LUCAS. LUCAS LOVES SAMI!

This is a lumi story. No doubt about it.

[FancyLopezFitzge...]

^^LMAO. She would have dropped him like it's hot baby!

[EmmaFrost]

Sorry but I haven't read the whole thread. But I'm positive that EJ's self respect is quite intact! Sami makes EJ a wonderful person just as EJ makes Sami a wonderful person. They are so in love and I am really enjoying watching their love story unfold.

[Vicky4Mimi]

Yeah but if she had known that Lucas was coming back that night, she would have never slept with EJ. She more or less really "settled" for him because she thought Lucas wouldn't be coming back.

Then when Lucas did come back she left EJ without even a backward glance. Then she has been pretty clear with stating that she wants Lucas, chooses Lucas and wants a future with Lucas.

AND if Lucas had told her that he would give her another chance, forgive what happened with EJ and wasn't so confused about it all. If he told Sami that he loved her and they had a future together, Sami would have DROPPED EJ like a bad habit.

EJ = SUH-LOPPY Second.

YES and also on July 4th Lucas was ready to tell Sami he was ready to forgive her and move forward. He told Nicole that he and Sami were in love.
Overhearing Ej brag to Nicole is what messed that deal up. IF Ej hadnt been running his foolish mouth then the triangle would be over now. All this is just conflicts to keep soulmates apart as soaps have been known to do.
Ej is going to get hurt--and I do believe he deserves every pain he gets!

[Vicky4Mimi]

Sorry but I haven't read the whole thread. But I'm positive that EJ's self respect is quite intact! Sami makes EJ a wonderful person just as EJ makes Sami a wonderful person. They are so in love and I am really enjoying watching their love story unfold.

OH MY GOSH YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!!

[FancyLopezFitzge...]

^ITA that EJ will get hurt. I'm just wondering exactly how he's gonna take it when Sami and Lucas reunite.

[Vicky4Mimi]

^ITA that EJ will get hurt. I'm just wondering exactly how he's gonna take it when Sami and Lucas reunite.

Well Id like to say he will take it like a man---but I dont think that would be possible!

I think its time he feels some of the pain hes caused others!

[avelina]

With Lucas out of the picture it was easier for her to show her true feelings. No one didn't say she didn't love Lucas but she isn't IN love with him.

People that are saying EJ is a loser knows the true...we are getting EJami. I mean what do you call a person that knows she likes another man but doesn't want her to be with him so he decides to get together with her because he just found out his wife cheated on him with his brother. Sounds to me like he didn't want to be alone and he wanted to claim his territory. Remember Sami wouldn't have been with Lucas if it wasn't for EJ and his youthfulness telling Sami to make a choice her family or him. That was a mistake on his part. He didn't really realize that is what Sami always wanted and she wasn't going to give it up when they were standing there.

EJ made a mistake for saying that but he knows better now. They are rekindling their relationship and this time he won't screw it up! Hey at least the man doesn't yell at her all of time.

[FancyLopezFitzge...]

^Then she should have said she wasn't in love with Lucas. That's not what she said and that's not what she meant to say and that's not what that scene was meant for. It was purposely put in there to drive home that Sami although has feelings for EJ, she loves Lucas not like a brother but as in I want to spend my life with him and get it on with him. She would chose to be with Lucas if he would have her. They didn't put that in there for nothing and we already knew Sami had feelings for EJ and she still wants to be with Lucas over him, so this is nothing new or spectacular. It really wasn't needed but i'm glad the writers threw that in there. I guess they are giving Lumi fans and Ejami fans both a bone.

[tricky333]

Sami's only willing to give you a chance (no promises, no declarations of love...for YOU that is) because Lucas, the man she DOES LOVE doesn't want to be with her anymore.

I can't believe EJ is such a LOSER!

that is correct, ej loves sami so much he is willing to risk his heart for someone that may never love him the same way. its a leap of faith. and yes sami loves lucas. but that can never compare to the other type of love sami has for ej. i disagree ej is not a loser, he is a winner already no matter what cause he was willing to gamble on love. sami explained well i thought about her reasons for admitting those feelings for ej, and what led her to do so, and said she had been ignoring those feelings for some time, lucas knew it for months there was something between ejami, nicole knew ej was rebounding, ej would never deny being in love with sami, how can anyone feel scorned. everyones cards were on the table.

i love threads like this btw....

[dorothyg]

Sami was being honest for once on how she felt. She did say she loved Lucas but he moved on. But even Lucas knows the real reason he is not with Sami....bc Sami can't forget what she has with Ej. He saw it as everyone did,but only now Sami is realizing how much her "feelings" go for Ej. Ej is not pathetic.....he's a man deeply in love. How many women could only wish for someone who loved just them? Ej is pathetic to some bc he isn't fawning all over Nicole now. I sure wouldn't want to have to spend my life with Lucas hearing him rant and rave and belittle me every chance he gets. He turned Sami into the whining, sniveling person she is. I think Lucas is more pathetic for mentally abusing Sami every chance he got. It's not bad enough she begged and pleaded with him to stay with her even though she was married to Ej at the time and Lucas did tell her to move on. So she moved on with Ej...big flying flip!!!! I don't see Ej as being pathetic at all....Lucas knew how Sami felt about Ej, and that was the problem....she could never tell Lucas she didn't have "feelings" for Ej. She couldn't then and she can't deny them now.

[chloesgramma]

Sami was being honest for once on how she felt. She did say she loved Lucas but he moved on. But even Lucas knows the real reason he is not with Sami....bc Sami can't forget what she has with Ej. He saw it as everyone did,but only now Sami is realizing how much her "feelings" go for Ej. Ej is not pathetic.....he's a man deeply in love. How many women could only wish for someone who loved just them? Ej is pathetic to some bc he isn't fawning all over Nicole now. I sure wouldn't want to have to spend my life with Lucas hearing him rant and rave and belittle me every chance he gets. He turned Sami into the whining, sniveling person she is. I think Lucas is more pathetic for mentally abusing Sami every chance he got. It's not bad enough she begged and pleaded with him to stay with her even though she was married to Ej at the time and Lucas did tell her to move on. So she moved on with Ej...big flying flip!!!! I don't see Ej as being pathetic at all....Lucas knew how Sami felt about Ej, and that was the problem....she could never tell Lucas she didn't have "feelings" for Ej. She couldn't then and she can't deny them now.

I just think watching their love spill all over each other is so awesome. And I can't wait 'til NO ONE can deny the Ejami love. It's just a matter of time. I'll keep my gloating in check until then!! But, we are closer than we've ever been and that is VERY close!!

I don't think there is anything pathetic about a man who loves this much.