I've seen people ask how two friends as close as W & G could go so many years without speaking. I'm living it right now. I dated my "Will" as a teenager, and was so in love with him, but broke it off because something didn't seem quite right. About a year later he told me he had come to know he was gay, even though he still loved me. Neither of us wanted the other one to move on, and when I got married, he was jealous. We lost touch after that. I have tried to find him but haven't been able to, and I love him more now than I did even then. I think about him constantly, even six years later. I can't believe so much time has passed! He has never met my kids or been there for all the big milestones. It is the biggest tragedy of my life.