QUOTE (sliderwnf @ Oct 28 2006, 11:10 PM)

I'm really bored right now, and chilly.. But I'm back!!
I will enjoy more LUMI time, They say that lucas' is verbally abusive to Sami.. So, it got me to thinking. I was physically, verbally, emotional abuse by my second hubby.. He was my first love which we meet when I was 11 and he was 9. I met him at my brother and his sisters wedding, we became really good friends. I felt safe around him. But, as we got older we went our separate ways.
Met up again, got married lived a life of he!l..He died of lung cancer.. I have accepted that it was my fate, and life goes on...
The verbal abuse I recieved was nothing like what Lucas does to Sami.. He doesn't do it to be vindictive, he has already changed, by becoming a recovering alcohol.. He sees when he hurts her, he sees her pain and wants to change that and does feel remorsefull. It also happens in real life too, they always feel bad of what they did to you. It really is a bad roller coaster ride living with a man like this..
I sit here and weight the odds, it isn't abuse it is bickering.. Their is a difference.. We all get to that point in our relationships.. I see a whole different scenario as to why people think that Lucas is verbally abusing Sami.. I can relate, but it is nothing like the real thing..
Lucas and Sami fight, they bicker, and through it all I see the passion, and intensity of LUMI.. They both have to be right, both are to stubborn.. Yet, they have also said "Your Right" to each other.. Words are words and we say things in the fit of anger at the heat of the moment.. It very rarely, turns abuse physically. I think Hogan sees the intensity, and chemistry of LUMI, I think that we are on our way back to the old LUMI, but with much, much better maturity..
Good night, my sweety demands more QT..
I was very touched by your coments and your
life experience. I agree with all your points
about LUMI. Love is wonderful and difficult at
the same time. It's very easy when a couple
is arguing to be mean and spitful and someone
always seems to go a little to far. It takes a smart person
to know when some things are meant to hurt and when some
things are said of stubborn hardheadedness.
I agree with you and am happy you shared your insights.
I also believe that we all learn something new every waking day
and that life can be too short, so we must try to enjoy
as much of it as we can!