here's a few reasons to be single.

When you significant other says yes we've been together so many years, my case 3 yrs. So in that time I think you owe me 3 yrs of no crying, no moaning, no whinning, no pms mood swings and 3 yrs of mind blowing sex.

I had the blankest look on my face for over 5 mins.

That's nice Mambo! I hope things keep going well!

--any more I can use? WTF is that about?

I've been flirting with our security guard a lot recently. Hmm...something might become of this.

ohh sharpie!! have to keep us updated!

Right now Scotty is the only good thing the male race has going for it. It is not even 10 and I have been in three pointless fights with boys of all ages. Honestly!

I hope it culminates into something more!

I agree with pam, boys are stupid!

Oh wedd I had told the brit it's been 3 yrs and we've had so many disappointments and let downs I think you owe me a proper getaway for us, a wedding since our last date ended up being cancelled. And he responded with that.

Boys are very stupid!

^^^And immature. They don't grow as quickly mentally than girls do. This is very prominent in teenage boys.

Yeah, but this boy is in his 40's!

^^ wedd that's gave me the biggest laugh I've had all day.

Yeah he's 40 he should know better. He was snippy with me today and I know why and I'm choosing his friends from now on and getting rid of a couple of them. I think you all know what that means.

^^^Ya, some guys don't get over that stage I guess!

Liz, shouldn't his daughter have a week off from school soon? Here in NY they are off the 18-22. Maybe his mom can watch her and you guys can get away for a day or two. Float the idea and see what happens.

^^ I'd love for his mom to watch her, she tried but returned her home by the end of day one. Ms. Thang is too much too handle for her. (too spoiled and demanding) I don't know when her next break is, I think it's soon though. Maybe she can stay at a friends for the weekend. Wedd, how do you feel about babysitting? Don't kill me please.
I hope if i weed out a few friends things will be better, some of his friends are leeches.

I hope you can get some time alone! And that you can weed out some of his dumber friends!

I'm starting with the dumber ones first. They still have enough sense to con him the dumbest ones, well I'm sure they will find something shinny or a girl to keep them away once they learn the ATM is broken.

All I want really is for us to reset a date and plan all over again. I don't think I'm asking for too much.

OMG, that's hilarious! Good luck!

That's not asking for much! I hope you can do that soon!

!!

How about we find a babysitter for the kids in Middle America? Instead of me and you meeting half way, we ship them off for a week!

Liz--Good luck ! And no, your not asking for too much!

I'm patiently (okay, not so patiently) waiting for him to contact me. He hasnt. I do not want to be the one to reach out.

I'll keep waiting.

And waiting.

I'm going crazy.

Wedd you know it! girls week off I think.



See I don't think it's a lot to ask for as well. I guess in a mans world it is.

Mambo just wait it out a bit longer, sometimes it takes guys days to call. thats where boys are stupid too. If he doesn't call back in a week then you have every right to either forget him or call him and call him a loser.

No parking, mambo.

I hope he calls mambo!

I hope he contacts you first Mambo! Hold on for a little while, try not to think too much about it (which I know is pretty impossible!).

He asked me to lunch today It was a lot of fun!! We might be hanging out tomorrow night but we'll see.

Yay, that is awesome ! Hope you get to hang out tomorrow!

That's great mambo! I'm so happy for you!

oh guys you are making me laugh!!!

in class today someone asked when boys matured and our teacher said when she figured out she would get back to us

I have to keep you updated on the problems, but I swear there is some thing called men PMS. and they say we have mood swings

OH and I have found a new TV hottie!! Robin on Robin hood.... give me a man who can use a bow and arrow, and he goes on adventures... sigh. ( not to mention his nice bottom and hair! )

Haha, keep us posted for sure !

Ooo, that show looks good--and so does Robin ! When and were could I can't it?

That's hilarious!

Nice, he is pretty hot ain't he?

brit isn't answering his phone. I'm in jammies and I'm not going out...why hasn't me called me back?

Sorry, lizzy.

well I e-mailed "him" today ( at the moment he does not deserve to be called by his name) we will see if it takes him a day or a month to e-mail me back.

I swear men have a different concept of time. ( example liz comment above)

I know why he didn't call me back. He went out with his friends. His mom watched Ms. Thang and he and his friends went to some comedy show and then out. When did I finally get him? 3 am! WTH? I expect him to tell every detail later. When we talked last night, he said I didn't do anything wrong, I went out, watched the show, hung out came home. The last 2-3 days we seem to barely touch base ya know. I'm super duper annoyed

Yup, they sure do!

he's promised me a full evening of just us. I've told him that he better send me some very nice flowers as well for valentines day since last year he did a roy and got me nothing.

We didnt hang out last night, so I was mad for awhile that he hadnt called or anything. I gave up and "studied" (while very distracted) for the ACT. Then I got a phone call from him and we talked for a looong time. Its just so easy to talk to him. I'm comfortable, and it isnt awkward. So that put me in a good mood. Just thought I'd share!

I didn't get my evening, I've been mad at him all day an I doubt I will get flowers. He did call me around 7pm to say not to send him paranoid text messages, he's sorry and will fix things tomorrow. All I heard was blah blah blah

My feelings for my guy friend are growing stronger by the day . He's been so unbelievably supportive during these last few weeks regarding my grandma. When I was in the shower he called me on my cell, offering his condolonces(sp) & saying how that if I ever need anything or just need to talk that I should call him & also, he wanted to see how I was doing & feeling. Heck, even a few of my "close" friends didn't even call me or ask how I was doing. I'm at a loss of words & yet at the same time, my heart feels fuzzy . I never imagined that a guy like him exists. All the other ones I knew have been such well, guys. His support & kind words have helped me through my darkest hours & without him, who knows what I'd be like. All I know for now is that I'm never going to lose him or let him walk away as a friend. I plan to hold onto him as who knows when I'll find another him . I never expected that I'd be this lucky...

Awwww, yes, there are lots of really nice guys out there PiP. Glad you found yours.

I'm so happy for you mambo! That's great!



Aww, that's so sweet! I'm so happy for you PiP!

that's sweet pip, I'm glad you've found someone you can rely on like that.

brit shut off his phone today. He's testing me again and I might as well give him permission to dump me first. Men are stupid

Aw, that's swell!



That sucks Liz *Hugs*!



Aww, so sweet! He sounds like keen, a real keeper!

I'm sorry lizzy. How about YOU take the control for once? You regain control of your own life.

Yeah, I agree, I don't know what his deal is, again, but he is being very inconsiderate of your feelings. Try to not answer his calls for a full day and see what happens.

I'm sure lots of you will agree that being single isn't so great. Strange thing is I've got a friend who says he wishes he was single. I don't know I think being in a relationship sounds great. That is if both people can be committed. Being "available" is cool for a while, but I just don't know. He insists I remain single for as long as possible(for really strange reasons. Maybe I'm not a typical guy, all I know is being single isn't that great. Oh, and anyone can feel free to elaborate or give advice.

neither one of us have spoken to each other. I don't understand him at all, cause yesterday when we did talk all he wanted to talk was about he doesn't want us to take each other granted. I'm feeling like I give more than him and I whine more but yeah I do expect a lot. Perhaps, that's my downfall? I love the man, I do. Just why can't he do what I want sometimes?

My brother's a Jim. I just had to share that. He's in a tough situation with a girl he really likes and he's the Jim in it.

^^^Aww, poor guy! I hope it turns out the way it did in TO!

That sucks Lenny! Is she dating someone else? I hope it'll turn out like TO S4!

after a quick chat on the phone. we will spend some time together in a bit. He said he still wants to marry me, but I have to promise that I will try to not make him go crazy. I told him as long as you say all this is your fault then I will try. Poor guy. I've already gave in. I hate the fact that I can't stay mad at him for more than a day or so. I always think, what if something bad happens to him. I'd never forgive myself for being mad at him. I'm such a push over. Why didn't I have more boyfriends in high school then?