Yeah it really sucks. Maybe he'll say something tomorrow? But I doubt it..

cheer up. There are more boys out there

But I like this one!

give him a day or so jam. He might be in a mood. There's nothing wrong with looking though

I will do that. I'll talk to him tomorrow at his locker or something..

good luck with that jam.

Oh danku!

That's true. I knew a guy who acted different on different days. One day I would message him on facebook or text him & he'd get back to me right away. Than the next time it would take him days to get back to me, if he ever replied that is. I suddenly realized that instead of always running to him, I'd sit back & let him come to me. But yeah, chances are that the guy is in a mood so he's probably reacting to everyone around him differently, not just you.

Well he wasn't acting weird, but he didn't say thanks for the jellybeans.. He was really excited though. But I kinda owe him.. But still. He should still say something.

Oh Pip thats so very true what you said. I still go back and forth with the brit. He always wanted me to be around so now I always am, but he hasn't been. Some days he's great others he's not. So if Im not always around like he likes. He finally gets moody and all where were you, I miss you. It's hard to get but in a non mean way

Minki, you are a woman of decisive and fast action - wow!!!

How are you holding up? I sure hope he isn't bothering you, but even if he is, take it as a sign that he isn't giving any sort of priority to your needs or wants, and wants to keep the status quo of everything suiting him.

We're thinking about you, and pulling for you!

Relief is a wonderful feeling. And turning off your phone was a very wise move. Will you miss him? Yes. Will you be sad? Yes, but more sad because the dream you had died - but the dream wasn't the reality. The new reality is that you can now live your dream, instead of being oppressed, and making decisions that are what is best for yourself.

I'm so happy you're making plans. Yeah, we'll be here for you.

Yay, minki! Good for you!!

Thank you I had to make a quick decision on it while I was still feeling so strongly about it. I don't like to drag things like this out, so I did it just like I was ripping off a bandaid. He actually didn't bother me much after...he knows me well enough now to know that when I make a decision, I mean it and I'm going to stand firm on it. I'm sure he will call in time, but I don't have to answer the phone



That is very true. I am sad because for 4 years, that was where I thought I was supposed to be. I didn't have much turn out like I had hoped it would...but its very exciting/scary to be starting completely from scratch. So many new decisions I get to make!


Thanks! I never could have done it without you guys! All of you really backed up the feelings that I was already having, but was just too scared to admit.

Well, I think it helped that you were honest about your feelings. You knew in your gut things weren't right, you just needed a little affirmation. You're really brave for ripping off the bandaid. I had a much harder time.

One of the worst things for me when I got out of a long term relationship was how much I missed their families. I'm not sure how close you were to his familiy, minki, but just keep forging ahead! There is a great big world out there full of wonderful opportunities for you!

Wow minki! Good for you! This couldn't have been an easy decision, and I'm sure you've got lots of feelings, etc. But you're handling this just right and staying strong. I hope he does get the message and decides to begin taking care of himself. Exciting and scary sounds about right. This is going to be a great time for you.

aww good luck with everything Min. Glad you made a choice about your life.

How was school today jam with that boy?

hmmm he left didn't call me to tell me he'd be gone all day. I fight with him about letting me know. I ask if I take off and you can't get me what would you do. He said I would wonder where you are. EXACTLY! I screamed more about it cause he had this same fight with me the other day. idoit

Uhh.. I gave him a bunch of dirty looks. But tomorrow will definitely be fun. Last day so I have to be a rebel..

what did he do when you gave him the dirty looks

I don't think he even noticed..

sorry to hear that Jam

I had the same fight again with the brit. I finally just said well I hope you like spending time with her more than me. He got mad at me. That was yesterday evening. It was later that before bed we had another fight and I hung up on me. He's not cheating on me but I said it cause I was mad and I shouldn't have. The running away from me had got to me. i feel really bad about it now.

I walked/talked with him today. It was very cute. But I didn't get to say good-bye to him and now I'm all upset.

I'm sure you and he will be texting though later. Don't you text a lot?

Ha I'm talking to him right now. I told him I was going to hug him. And he said, "Aww would you really?" Soo.. But he left early from school..

text mesg..... I really think relationships were a lot better off before texting. Maybe it is just me...

^^ yeah it was. The more you rely on them the more they shy away from you. It's fine in the begining though I think. It's just a way of flirting but after you only seem to get annoyed and mad that he won't face you or call you and speak to you like a normal human

Do I hear hysterical laughing?

Yeah.. and for me when they txt you A LOT.. then you get annoyed and say stay away... but when he does not txt you all day.. then you feel all neglected.

And people wonder why I never answer any txt..

We don't text too much. Just during school and sometimes after school..

oh Pam... I know what you mean. Isn't that the truth? It's okay Jam if you text off and on and your still young. It's just when you get into a serious relationship that texting becomes more hated .
Nick doesn't text me back..there will be a horrible text followed soon after texting can be the devil at times

I like texting.

You say that now. Wait til you get a serious boyfriend and rather than talk to you he texts you. You will want to kill his cell phone.

Really? I don't see someone texting that much.

oh it will happen.

So, guess who has a date tonight? Me. I am so nervous.

CAA! Like a blind date? Or with someone you really like?

I know! A friend of a friend.....of a friend. I met him at a pool party. He asked my friend for my number and wished me a happy birthday. When I thanked him, he asked me to dinner.

Whoa! That's so exciting!! What are you wearing? Where are you going? Is he a hotty...?

Hey, that's great! Yeah, what she said. What about a fragrance? How old are you? That may determine your fragrance concept.

! I feel like we're attacking her.

Ha! yeah.

No, we're interrogating her, that's different.

If you tell me which fragrances you own, KMBay84, I can help you choose wisely.

Oh a date. What's that? the only dates I've been on are with my friend andera

What if you only wear body sprays veebs? is that too much or not enough

I have a "hot" date with the tv star on the 15th . We'll be walking the seawall together & if the weather turns out to be cr@ppy, we'll do something like play pool or another indoor activity. I'm not gonna lie when I say that I'm excited .

What scents do you wear/like?

yeah I am with you Liz.... Date what is that? I only go on a date to dinner and a movie with my gal pals.

* The men in my life just txt me and ask if I might want to come over and make him his dinner*

No wonder that did not last HAHA

Sigh.....men

yeah pam I feel like I date my girly friends than the brit.

I wear VC vanilla lace or B&B japanese cherry blossom

No, don't worry about it. You're not attacking me Well, he picked me up and we went to an Italian restaurant downtown. I felt way overdressed because I wore a blue sundress and nice shoes and he wore jeans and a nice shirt.
I don't really own any fragrances. In fact, I don't really know what they are lol. Are they like perfume? Thanks anyway VBArk. It was ok, kind of awkward. I don't know, he's a really nice guy, but I don't know. So yeah, that is the hoopla about the date. Maybe if we go out on a second date I will feel more attracted to him, but I don't want to lead him on. I don't know.

Oh yes, and I just turned 24. Well, a little bit ago.

Well, happy birthday, KMBay84!! (oooh I just figured out what the '84 means!)
Doesn't sound like you were overdressed. As long as you feel comfy and look nice, that's all that matters, right? I'm sure he appreciated you looking nice in a dress and pretty shoes.