Nick can't come visit me. his knee still hurts and now he's done something to his neck. He sounds terrible and I've convinced him to go to the ER if it's not any better when he wakes up. Thank God ms.thang went to stay at a friends cause I know the last thing he wants is noise and a demanding child around.

It's like dating myself lately

Words of Wisdom:


Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need
controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown womenmake you want to come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their mans time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a little bit of space makes the together time even more special and goes to kick it with her own friends.

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and tell their man so.
Grown women show him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his manhood.

Girlsget hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their
affection, ignoring all signs.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.

Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.

^^^That is AWESOME!!!

I ran into a guy I talk to sometimes at school today. We were talking and he usually flirts a little with me. Then he gave me his ninja Yu-Gi-Oh cards. I am not sure how to feel about this.

Oh who's on the card(s)?

Let me grab them, and I will get back to you.

You mean you haven't sold them on ebay yet?

ok i have the list ready

Yeah i'm bored and looked up the Yu-gi-oh card list. I used to know them when Max was into them but thankfully my grey matter forgot that.


p.s. is this a 4th grader like Doogie Houser attending college?

Yeah, now if only the other SINGLE people would read that and take it to heart.

That is amazing. I am currently in possession of Ninja Grandmaster Sasuke, Goe Goe the Gallant Ninja, and Lady Ninja Yae.

And NO, he is not.

Ninja Grandmaster Sasuke- e SOD-EN019 Rare from 1st Ed. The Soul of the Duelist
If this card attacks a face-up Defense Position monster, destroy the monster with this card's effect without applying damage calculation.

Goe Goe the Gallant Ninja- When this card inflicts Battle Damage to your opponent while they have 5 or more cards in their hand, discard 2 random cards from their hand.

Lady Ninja Yae-By discarding 1 WIND monster from your hand to the Graveyard, return all Spell and Trap Cards on your opponent's side of the field to the owner's hand.
==================

With great power comes responsibility.

OR

Maybe you remind him of Lady Ninja

I think i'm scared either way.

He gave you a trading card? Just like here I want you to have this?

Nick and I are both so miserble with aches and pains. I called him up, don't make time for me today, just rest and go to bed early, I'm doing the same thing. He muttered a few words and I made out bath and pill. I just let out a weak little grunt and he gave me a kiss over the phone an we both hung up. We're perfectly miserble.

Yes. I told him I don't play, and that I didn't want to take them in case he needed them...and he pretty much forced me to take them. I'm confused. Don't join gaming clubs, guys. It's bad news.

oohhh this is bad news hottest. Now he's always got a conversation starter with you. RUN!

Woah!!!!!!!! That's like giving you a ring!

Awww, I think it's kinda endearing & it's like him telling you that he values you, as much as he values the card. I like it when guys step outside the box & flirt in a manner that's not so typical. Of course, there are boundaries .

I love that post veebs & I'm gonna forward it to all my female friends, so thanks for sharing it . I'll admit, with Mikey I was a girl but now, I'm a grown woman, I think .

RC I think you are right about that.

Yeah, if you're in 3rd grade. As an adult, it's just ... different.

Agreed. Hopefully the cards are at least the authenic ones.


BTW, I appreciate that list you posted. Too bad it won't resonate enough with a lot of "girls".

I don't think I've had one fight with nick since we decided to get back together. Does this mean we're boring

I feel so bad for my friend this guy she likes and is getting married. Well it seems his friends are talking to her to find out if she knows any of the gossip that is going around about the up coming marriage an when she said no and even if she did she wouldn't say, apparently the guy left her a email, he was spilling all his problems to her. Mind you this is going on while they are both at work. She told him she was too busy and the matter he wanted to discuss was too personal for them to be talking about.
I'm proud she told him to go away cause he uses her but doesn't like her but I'm sad for her cause he's a jerk for always stirring up the feelings she's trying to get rid of .

^^ Good for you and Nick not fighting! That guy is being cruel to your friend. She's trying to get over him and he's using her.

Everytime I talk to my ex-girlfriend and mention something like 'I'm cooking tonight' she has to remind me that she doesn't make her husband cook. She's pretty cool otherwise, but those kind of comments are a little weird.

why would she say that to you?? Seems odd. Almost like in a stepford way she's bragging she can do it all I guess? Big freakin' deal though, so do many other women and men for that matter.

Nick called, asked me what I was going to do tonight. I said office thursday so he said maybe another night we cna spend some time together. I said okay. I will say this though for him, he's bulked up a bit much. He said I'm going to drop some weight. He's no where near even pinch some fat but he said he doesn't like all the extra muscle on himself so he's going to take it off. which I like him doing cause I hate to see veins. But the good news is I told him I saw some cute sandals on line and he told me say no more they are yours. Im getting the cute sandals I put on the girls thread. I tried to remind him of my shoe size and he butted in, it's a 8 I know I bought you shoes before. It's so silly but he's never really remembered the small things and something so minor as my shoe size shows me he is paying attention. I am really very happy.

I definitely must have missed the backstory.

The last time i saw an ex was at a Mall, when I was with my wife and son. Luckily when she called my name, my wife was well ahead of me. I turned, waved, and kept moving. I didn't feel like dealing with that awkwardness.

What would your wife have said if you took time and talked to her?

I keep in touch with a few of my exes. My wife knows this, so there is nothing sneaky going on.

I'm not sure, but I had enough problems without trying to explain who she was.

When I was dating my wife, we had a period where we took a break from each other. This ex fell into that break. Plus, the ex had a big mouth.

Ugh, big mouth exes are the worst!

Thanks! I wish I'd seen it when I was a girl of 16 20 30 40 Oh well, better late than never!


She should forward it to his boss.

I woke up late today and when I called nick to see if we could spend the early afternoon together, he was already busy with something and wanted to go to bed early tonight because he's pinched a nerve and that's what's causing his pain. He's working on a present for me, but I don't know if I'll get that on or after easter. But I enjoyed being called this, "as long as my beautiful is happy" awww, I've not been called this type or any other type of lovely dovey in ages by him.

My brother still keeps in contact with his ex GF from high school. Is this a normal guy thing?

Uh, um......

^^ I mean major fight Jazz.

He called me this morning after I left him a text message around 2:30 am. He laughed and asked did your brother come home? I was like yeah at 6 am. He said you want me to bring the trash bags for the bodies We laughed an He's supposed to call me in a few now that I'm alone we can talk. today he called me muffin. that's a new nick name too.

Nick is smooth!! That's a good nickname (a good nickname in general, not you specifically )

he's been doing that a lot lately. Like I said it's like it was before.

He did call me asked how things were going. I told him I'm alone they've gone out. He said though it's over between us cause he can't be with a person who pays to see New Kids on the Block. But he paid he see Nickleback We talked about how I was going to spend my day then with the family here. And he said well we'll have to do something later, just us. I said I'm not clenaing up your funky media room. He laughed cause that's what he wanted and said what am I going to do with you, so I asked what are you going to do? He told me, marry you. His words, you really are the one so I'll marry you. We both were quiet for a second, kind of a big thing to say really. Then he added, and you'll like it, in this funny authoritive tone.Where was this nick for the past 2 years?

I'm semi-single this week. Tom is in charge of the office move this weekend. Last night he didn't get home until 8pm ,and I haven't seen him yet today. And forget the rest of the week. I was in charge of an office move once and I know what he is going through, so I am leaving him alone. I have my massage on Sat and maybe a solo movie Friday. I have all my shows on Thursday, so I just have to figure out something to do tomorrow!

Idle hands are the devil's playground.

Well, I just choked on the food I was eating...

Me too!

Don't laugh. We have to stop Wedd from making a big mistake. Noooo!

^^^Wait, I thought that was going one way and then it went another!

What mistake am I making?

The mistake where you feel guilty later. When u get weak just remember the flowers you wrote about in the spouse thread.



BTW, my wife accepted a position at Georgia Souther Univ. so she will be moving in July. I will stay in NC and continue to work while looking for another job in GA. This will give me more quality time with my girlfriend. It's a win/win.

I'm too lazy to ever do anything to remotely make me feel guilty.

As for you, don't even joke about having a girlfriend. You're just joking to hide how much you'll miss your wife anyway

You're probably correct, Wedd.

I try to look on the bright side, and think the distance will make us appreciate each other more.

Shut. Up.


Congrats to New #2's #1.

New, you have my brothers sense of humor

It's just all smiles

Yeah, I didn't come up with anything aside from laundry and dishes. I'm too lazy to do anything else.

^^^Oh yeah, and I made a list of stuff to buy at CVS after work tomorrow.

I probably should, Mixed.



There's no harm in joking. Right?




Yes! Another sucessful intervention. I'll have to pat myself on the back.

Okay, this is how bored I am. I made Tom a card for Opening Day tomorrow using my Hallmark Card Studio--which seriously, is awesome. Anyway, yeah, I printed a pic of him on the field at the old Yankee Stadium in the card.

So bored.

Nick called me this morning. "how is lazy sweetie pop?" I told him about yesterday with the clampetts and he just laughed. He asked we doing anything tonight? I told him no i have the concert, and he grumbled and told me I need to see a shrink for going to the concert
But I'll call him later. He told me while ms. thang is back in school and he can settle something with work and his parents we can try to do alittle something or plan for something later.
this time I believe he means what he says to me.

And no, there is no harm in joking new.

nick sent me a pic today, you're tired, check me out. He looks worse off than me. He's doing this weekend thing with his daughter so we've not had any time together but we're both too tired to argue about it.