Yeah, no girl says her chest is her best asset - if she has a brain. That's kinda sad, really. Maybe that way you won't be looking at her big honking nose.
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You like The Office, the Bears and you're both Scorpois? I think you were separated at birth. If she shows up wearing only a diaper, run.
Yeah, no girl says her chest is her best asset - if she has a brain. That's kinda sad, really. Maybe that way you won't be looking at her big honking nose.
I love how your filter is in Disneyland.
Yeah, no girl says her chest is her best asset - if she has a brain. That's kinda sad, really. Maybe that way you won't be looking at her big honking nose.
I love how your filter is in Disneyland.
QUOTE (Diapers @ Aug 17 2007, 07:59 PM) 
Who's into Diapers? Apparently, large breasted women who live a minimum of an hour away. I've had a couple of hits over the past week.
I let the first one, whom I was calling Boobs McGee, get away because I failed to call when I said I would. My fault entirely. I just choked. Ladies, you need to understand that it's not always a conspiracy. Men don't always purposely not call you. Sometimes they just fail to do so, then they kick themselves over it. She probably wouldn't have liked me calling her B. McGee anyway. But daaaaaayaamn. Seriously, they scared me. That's why I couldn't call.
It might be okay though, because the girl I started talking to a couple of days ago threw me a phone number, and I won't fail this time. On her list of interests...The Office and the Chicago Bears. We're both Scorpios. I don't know what the heck that means, but I tend to pay attention to horoscopes whenever I get a little crushy. She listed her best asset as...her chest. I don't know what's up with that. If I had large breasts, I still would have said personality or sense of humor. It almost seems degrading to say your best feature is "my sweet rack". That's an issue we can discuss over dinner, I suppose.
Do I need to delete this?
Should I add my standard disclaimer that I'm hardly a breast man? I just like talking about them because they're funny to me.
I probably shouldn't post at all until my filter gets back from Disneyland.
I let the first one, whom I was calling Boobs McGee, get away because I failed to call when I said I would. My fault entirely. I just choked. Ladies, you need to understand that it's not always a conspiracy. Men don't always purposely not call you. Sometimes they just fail to do so, then they kick themselves over it. She probably wouldn't have liked me calling her B. McGee anyway. But daaaaaayaamn. Seriously, they scared me. That's why I couldn't call.
It might be okay though, because the girl I started talking to a couple of days ago threw me a phone number, and I won't fail this time. On her list of interests...The Office and the Chicago Bears. We're both Scorpios. I don't know what the heck that means, but I tend to pay attention to horoscopes whenever I get a little crushy. She listed her best asset as...her chest. I don't know what's up with that. If I had large breasts, I still would have said personality or sense of humor. It almost seems degrading to say your best feature is "my sweet rack". That's an issue we can discuss over dinner, I suppose.
Do I need to delete this?
Should I add my standard disclaimer that I'm hardly a breast man? I just like talking about them because they're funny to me.
I probably shouldn't post at all until my filter gets back from Disneyland.
Dont worry about the one that got away Big D.
I have no clue what it means to be a Scorpio, as I am a Gemini
Hmmm, I'm always wary of anyone man or woman who put their best 'assets' upfront instead of just being themselves. The only time I see putting your best foot forward or best boobage on display is when.......oh wow I dont know when it is best to put the girls on permanent display when meeting a stranger.
My best feature is..... unmentionable
You only put the girls on display when you want it.
^^^ I agree completely. It's like me asking a guy what his best feature is & he goes, "Um, I'd guess it have to be my weiner" Personally, I like my compassionate side & the fact that I put my family first. I'm worrying that something something about my physical apperance will make me sound superficial. Well, maybe my smile...
Personally, I like my compassionate side & the fact that I put my family first. I'm worrying that something something about my physical apperance will make me sound superficial. Well, maybe my smile...
QUOTE (VBARKLEY @ Aug 17 2007, 08:13 PM)
You only put the girls on display when you want it.
it=chocolate, money, Pepsi, steak, shrimp......... or do you mean
QUOTE (prettyinpink86 @ Aug 17 2007, 07:14 PM)
I'm worrying that something something about my physical apperance will make me sound superficial. Well, maybe my smile...
Exactly. If you really think your chest is your best feature, you're better off saying eyes or smile. Trust me, you're chest will be noticed whether you point it out* or not.*Not physically!
I always say eyes...because everybody else can see that my boobs rock...and sway...and move in other ways.
Must be quittin' time on Friday.
any girls want to go have a girlie night?? I have no date tonite. 
I think I might not for a few days
I think I might not for a few days
QUOTE (Diapers @ Aug 17 2007, 07:25 PM)
Exactly. If you really think your chest is your best feature, you're better off saying eyes or smile. Trust me, you're chest will be noticed whether you point it out* or not.
*Not physically!
I always say eyes...because everybody else can see that my boobs rock...and sway...and move in other ways.
Must be quittin' time on Friday.
*Not physically!
I always say eyes...because everybody else can see that my boobs rock...and sway...and move in other ways.
Must be quittin' time on Friday.
The service I use doesn't even ask that question. Although it gives you plenty of opportunity to offer the information anyway.
And the horoscope thing...although I don't really invest a lot in it, I do look at it and tend to shy away from someone who's sign is too close to mine.
QUOTE (Diapers @ Aug 17 2007, 04:59 PM)
I just like talking about them because they're funny to me.
Mine are hysterical.
What's going on around here?
QUOTE (buymeacoke @ Aug 17 2007, 07:29 PM)
Mine are hysterical.
What's going on around here?
What's going on around here?
We don't have dates. Not tonight, anyway.
QUOTE (Diapers @ Aug 17 2007, 07:25 PM)
Exactly. If you really think your chest is your best feature, you're better off saying eyes or smile. Trust me, you're chest will be noticed whether you point it out* or not.
*Not physically!
*Not physically!
I agree. I mean, boobs are out there for the whole world to see. A smile is only shown well, when someone smiles. It's easy to stare at a girls chest & blurt out, "Nice boobs!" but you can't look at someone who has a serious look pasted on their face & go, "Gee, she has such a great smile!"
It's always an akward moment for me when a guy asks what feature of mine I prefer the best. Next time I'll say the blackhead on my nose just to throw 'em off.The best things are hiden, if ya know what I mean
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QUOTE (scranton temp liz @ Aug 17 2007, 07:27 PM)
any girls want to go have a girlie night?? I have no date tonite. I think I might not for a few days
The Brit... Hmph. I think I might not for a few days Wanna hear a quick impression? Tell him I said this.
"Wot's awl thees theyn?"
Have a great girlie night. I'll be out of your hair in a few minutes, about twenty by my clock.
QUOTE (prettyinpink86 @ Aug 17 2007, 07:33 PM)
The best things are hidden, if ya know what I mean .
That's why I think it's appropriate for a guy to say his wiener is his greatest asset, because that's not something that a woman should be able to notice on first glance. If she can... Egads!.At least "bank account" or "car" aren't listed in the drop down box. On the sites that I use, they ask for your income level. I'd probably get twice as many hits if I "forgot" to fill in that part. It's amazing to me how many women will list themselves as making $25,000-$35,000 and demand that their potential mate makes at least $150,000. Good luck with that, honey. It's a dating site, not the lottery.
^^ like the impression D. My girlie night might end up being the Rome dvd's again.
like the impression D. My girlie night might end up being the Rome dvd's again.
I dont think I'll be able to watch any movies with any sort of romantic storyline in them anymore. I'm sick of being fuh-reaking single that it pains me to watch people in love. I'm just getting so annoyed and lonely feeling. I mean, its great to have your friends but I would like someone else to be there. Rawwrrr.
^^^^Don't worry - it'll get better in another 20 years. 
Yeah, sometimes you have to take a break from that mushy stuff. How about following some of your other interests, like music or sports?
Get involved in stuff that you are interested in. That way at least you'll be having fun, meeting people and growing into a wonderful young lady until Mr. Right comes along. 
Did I just sound like her mom?
Yep, chocolate, money, but then mine change to Coke, chips/salsa, pizza, chocolate....
Yeah, sometimes you have to take a break from that mushy stuff. How about following some of your other interests, like music or sports?
Get involved in stuff that you are interested in. That way at least you'll be having fun, meeting people and growing into a wonderful young lady until Mr. Right comes along. Did I just sound like her mom?
QUOTE (prettyinpink86 @ Aug 17 2007, 07:14 PM)
^^^ I agree completely. It's like me asking a guy what his best feature is & he goes, "Um, I'd guess it have to be my weiner"
QUOTE (Officeholic @ Aug 17 2007, 07:16 PM)
it=chocolate, money, Pepsi, steak, shrimp......... or do you mean
Yep, chocolate, money, but then mine change to Coke, chips/salsa, pizza, chocolate....
QUOTE (VBARKLEY @ Aug 18 2007, 12:21 AM)
^^^^Don't worry - it'll get better in another 20 years.
Yeah, sometimes you have to take a break from that mushy stuff. How about following some of your other interests, like music or sports? Get involved in stuff that you are interested in. That way at least you'll be having fun, meeting people and growing into a wonderful young lady until Mr. Right comes along.
Did I just sound like her mom?
Yeah, sometimes you have to take a break from that mushy stuff. How about following some of your other interests, like music or sports?
Get involved in stuff that you are interested in. That way at least you'll be having fun, meeting people and growing into a wonderful young lady until Mr. Right comes along. Did I just sound like her mom?
Haha yep a little bit, but thats okay. That's what I've been hearing a lot lately but I just dont like being in this state. I know I cant control it, but still.
Yeah, I know it's hard. But life really does get better after high school.
QUOTE (VBARKLEY @ Aug 18 2007, 01:07 AM)
Yeah, I know it's hard. But life really does get better after high school.
Well I will truly now by the end of next week.
QUOTE (Diapers @ Aug 17 2007, 04:59 PM)
It might be okay though, because the girl I started talking to a couple of days ago threw me a phone number, and I won't fail this time. On her list of interests...The Office and the Chicago Bears. We're both Scorpios. I don't know what the heck that means, but I tend to pay attention to horoscopes whenever I get a little crushy. She listed her best asset as...her chest. I don't know what's up with that. If I had large breasts, I still would have said personality or sense of humor. It almost seems degrading to say your best feature is "my sweet rack". That's an issue we can discuss over dinner, I suppose.
Do I need to delete this?
Should I add my standard disclaimer that I'm hardly a breast man? I just like talking about them because they're funny to me.
I probably shouldn't post at all until my filter gets back from Disneyland.
Do I need to delete this?
Should I add my standard disclaimer that I'm hardly a breast man? I just like talking about them because they're funny to me.
I probably shouldn't post at all until my filter gets back from Disneyland.
Hold up! If someone asked me what was my best asset, I would have immediately thought they were asking about a physical feature. Personality traits can be described as assets, but typically "assets" refer to . . . . . well . . . . ASSets.
I have a plan ladies and gentlemen. Last year when I went into my classes for the first time as a freshman in college I would find my friends or aquaintences and sit next to them. This year I'm ditching that effort. The two women I dated last year I met in my english classes. The first in 101 during the fall semester and the second in 102 the second semester. English was the only class I had where I didn't know anybody so...
Here's the plan...
When I go into my classes I'm not going to sit next to my friends at first anyway. I'm just going to try and find a girl I think I'd like and sit next to her. If I have anything working in my favor other than my absolutely ravishing, rugged handsomeness it's my wit. And what better place to use wit when in front of annoying professors. The best part is that if nothing happens I can just go sit by my friends.
It's foolproof...
Here's the plan...
When I go into my classes I'm not going to sit next to my friends at first anyway. I'm just going to try and find a girl I think I'd like and sit next to her. If I have anything working in my favor other than my absolutely ravishing, rugged handsomeness it's my wit. And what better place to use wit when in front of annoying professors. The best part is that if nothing happens I can just go sit by my friends.
It's foolproof...
QUOTE (mixedberries @ Aug 18 2007, 12:40 AM)
Hold up! If someone asked me what was my best asset, I would have immediately thought they were asking about a physical feature. Personality traits can be described as assets, but typically "assets" refer to . . . . . well . . . . ASSets.
Oh, you... I just went back to her page. It was Best Feature. I have no idea what all of the options are. I don't think you can say sense of humor or wit, but there's always smile or eyes.Obviously, I'm not a player. I won't pretend to be. I do, however, have three lines in the water right now, and I'm trolling pretty aggressively. The last one, just from today, doesn't have a picture, but her profile matches mine almost perfectly. Guess what her "best feature" is...
Yup.
I also wrote an apology to B. McGee. Whether I messed everything up or not, she at least deserved that.
QUOTE (BlueTurfBronco @ Aug 18 2007, 02:36 AM)
I have a plan ladies and gentlemen. Last year when I went into my classes for the first time as a freshman in college I would find my friends or aquaintences and sit next to them. This year I'm ditching that effort. The two women I dated last year I met in my english classes. The first in 101 during the fall semester and the second in 102 the second semester. English was the only class I had where I didn't know anybody so...
Here's the plan...
When I go into my classes I'm not going to sit next to my friends at first anyway. I'm just going to try and find a girl I think I'd like and sit next to her. If I have anything working in my favor other than my absolutely ravishing, rugged handsomeness it's my wit. And what better place to use wit when in front of annoying professors. The best part is that if nothing happens I can just go sit by my friends.
It's foolproof...
Here's the plan...
When I go into my classes I'm not going to sit next to my friends at first anyway. I'm just going to try and find a girl I think I'd like and sit next to her. If I have anything working in my favor other than my absolutely ravishing, rugged handsomeness it's my wit. And what better place to use wit when in front of annoying professors. The best part is that if nothing happens I can just go sit by my friends.
It's foolproof...
Thats a good idea can I use it.
QUOTE (BlueTurfBronco @ Aug 18 2007, 01:36 AM)
Here's the plan...
I'm just going to try and find a girl I think I'd like and sit next to her. If I have anything working in my favor other than my absolutely ravishing, rugged handsomeness it's my wit. The best part is that if nothing happens I can just go sit by my friends.
It's foolproof...
I'm just going to try and find a girl I think I'd like and sit next to her. If I have anything working in my favor other than my absolutely ravishing, rugged handsomeness it's my wit. The best part is that if nothing happens I can just go sit by my friends.
It's foolproof...
QUOTE (rabidfrodo @ Aug 18 2007, 01:41 AM)
Thats a good idea can I use it.
It is a pretty good plan, but I can't use that one. All of my classmates are fifteen years younger than I am. That's innaprobable.
QUOTE (BlueTurfBronco @ Aug 18 2007, 01:36 AM)
Here's the plan...
When I go into my classes I'm not going to sit next to my friends at first anyway. I'm just going to try and find a girl I think I'd like and sit next to her. If I have anything working in my favor other than my absolutely ravishing, rugged handsomeness it's my wit. And what better place to use wit when in front of annoying professors. The best part is that if nothing happens I can just go sit by my friends.
It's foolproof...
Is it just me or am I the only one worried about grades? When I go into my classes I'm not going to sit next to my friends at first anyway. I'm just going to try and find a girl I think I'd like and sit next to her. If I have anything working in my favor other than my absolutely ravishing, rugged handsomeness it's my wit. And what better place to use wit when in front of annoying professors. The best part is that if nothing happens I can just go sit by my friends.
It's foolproof...
In 20 years ya'll are gonna be having that scary dream where you only need one more class to graduate, you haven't gone all semester, and you just slept through the final.
QUOTE (Diapers @ Aug 18 2007, 01:51 AM)
It is a pretty good plan, but I can't use that one. All of my classmates are fifteen years younger than I am. That's innaprobable.
Hey, it didn't stop Michael Jackson. And he wrote Thriller...Thriller...
QUOTE (rabidfrodo @ Aug 18 2007, 01:41 AM)
Thats a good idea can I use it.
Of coarse Rabid, what's mine is yours. Unless we're talking about Jenna, she's mine.
QUOTE (VBARKLEY @ Aug 18 2007, 02:03 AM)
Is it just me or am I the only one worried about grades?
In 20 years ya'll are gonna be having that scary dream where you only need one more class to graduate, you haven't gone all semester, and you just slept through the final.
In 20 years ya'll are gonna be having that scary dream where you only need one more class to graduate, you haven't gone all semester, and you just slept through the final.
Don't get me wrong, grades are important. I just want somebody to study with...ya...study.
QUOTE (BlueTurfBronco @ Aug 17 2007, 11:36 PM)
I have a plan ladies and gentlemen. Last year when I went into my classes for the first time as a freshman in college I would find my friends or aquaintences and sit next to them. This year I'm ditching that effort. The two women I dated last year I met in my english classes. The first in 101 during the fall semester and the second in 102 the second semester. English was the only class I had where I didn't know anybody so...
Here's the plan...
When I go into my classes I'm not going to sit next to my friends at first anyway. I'm just going to try and find a girl I think I'd like and sit next to her. If I have anything working in my favor other than my absolutely ravishing, rugged handsomeness it's my wit. And what better place to use wit when in front of annoying professors. The best part is that if nothing happens I can just go sit by my friends.
It's foolproof...
Here's the plan...
When I go into my classes I'm not going to sit next to my friends at first anyway. I'm just going to try and find a girl I think I'd like and sit next to her. If I have anything working in my favor other than my absolutely ravishing, rugged handsomeness it's my wit. And what better place to use wit when in front of annoying professors. The best part is that if nothing happens I can just go sit by my friends.
It's foolproof...
Brilliant! We'll need status reports.
QUOTE (Diapers @ Aug 17 2007, 11:40 PM)
but there's always smile or eyes.
Maybe they just don't measure up.
QUOTE (VBARKLEY @ Aug 18 2007, 12:03 AM)
In 20 years ya'll are gonna be having that scary dream where you only need one more class to graduate, you haven't gone all semester, and you just slept through the final.
My husband still has this one every time he's extra stressed. Let's see, he graduated in . . . '88?
QUOTE (BlueTurfBronco @ Aug 15 2007, 04:32 PM)
Sounds like a gentlemanly move from a genuine guy. It's what I would have done so I say it's time to "lay on the charm". Good luck Lenny.
QUOTE (mixedberries @ Aug 15 2007, 04:57 PM)
Yeah, the guy's obviously a gentleman, and if you like him, don't let him get away, at least until you get to know him better. Seriously, you know how to get a hold of him right?
Seriously, you know how to get a hold of him right?This guy is so totally sweet (and cute). He asked me how my car was doing when I saw him at work today and we chatted for a few minutes (I was on break he wasn't and had to get back to his post). I hope that I see him again at work tomorrow and get another chance to talk to him. I guess that it's bad news now that I'm not working so much (only tomorrow and Saturday for all of next week). I just need to talk to him a few more times before we both go back to school. At least we'll both be back around Christmas time. It would be so much easier if we worked in the same area of the store. As it is, I've been going through his area to go outside "for some fresh air" on my breaks (really just to see if he's there and say hi). I feel totally giddy and it's a little weird.
WHEW!!!!!!!! Can I just tell you all how happy I am right now???
I am FINALLY over a guy I've been "in-love" with for a year and a half.
Usually when I see him my heart skips a beat or two, and I just can't stop thinking of how perfect we would be together...we are so similar it's ridiculous and to top it off I'm incredibly attracted to him.
But today...ohhhh...today I am FREE!!!!!!!!!!
I spent the whole day talking to him at a wedding. Don't get me wrong, nothing about him has changed. He's still the same great guy, but maybe I'm the one who has changed?
All I know is that when we both left that wedding, I let him go. AND I FEEL AMAZING!!!
Now I am free to pursue and to be pursued And I AM single....anyone anyone?
I am FINALLY over a guy I've been "in-love" with for a year and a half.
Usually when I see him my heart skips a beat or two, and I just can't stop thinking of how perfect we would be together...we are so similar it's ridiculous and to top it off I'm incredibly attracted to him.
But today...ohhhh...today I am FREE!!!!!!!!!!
I spent the whole day talking to him at a wedding. Don't get me wrong, nothing about him has changed. He's still the same great guy, but maybe I'm the one who has changed?
All I know is that when we both left that wedding, I let him go. AND I FEEL AMAZING!!!
Now I am free to pursue and to be pursued
And I AM single....anyone anyone?
YAY!!!! Good for you, Sharpie!! I am so happy for you! Chase that feeling!
^^^
I know, right? I thought it would never go away!
I know, right? I thought it would never go away!
QUOTE (SharpSchruter @ Aug 18 2007, 11:59 PM)
WHEW!!!!!!!! Can I just tell you all how happy I am right now???
I am FINALLY over a guy I've been "in-love" with for a year and a half.
Usually when I see him my heart skips a beat or two, and I just can't stop thinking of how perfect we would be together...we are so similar it's ridiculous and to top it off I'm incredibly attracted to him.
But today...ohhhh...today I am FREE!!!!!!!!!!
I spent the whole day talking to him at a wedding. Don't get me wrong, nothing about him has changed. He's still the same great guy, but maybe I'm the one who has changed?
All I know is that when we both left that wedding, I let him go. AND I FEEL AMAZING!!!
Now I am free to pursue and to be pursued And I AM single....anyone anyone?
I am FINALLY over a guy I've been "in-love" with for a year and a half.
Usually when I see him my heart skips a beat or two, and I just can't stop thinking of how perfect we would be together...we are so similar it's ridiculous and to top it off I'm incredibly attracted to him.
But today...ohhhh...today I am FREE!!!!!!!!!!
I spent the whole day talking to him at a wedding. Don't get me wrong, nothing about him has changed. He's still the same great guy, but maybe I'm the one who has changed?
All I know is that when we both left that wedding, I let him go. AND I FEEL AMAZING!!!
Now I am free to pursue and to be pursued
And I AM single....anyone anyone? QUOTE (SharpSchruter @ Aug 18 2007, 11:59 PM)
WHEW!!!!!!!! Can I just tell you all how happy I am right now???
I am FINALLY over a guy I've been "in-love" with for a year and a half.
I am FINALLY over a guy I've been "in-love" with for a year and a half.
That's great, Sharpie! That has to be a very liberating feeling.
I just got another hit from someone who I'm almost positive is playing games with his profile (but I'm not quite as sure as I am about the other two I "caught"). And in his "hit" he asked for my e-mail address right away. Uh, no.
If this is the way it's going to be I'm not doing this anymore. I mentioned in another thread about how I hate being lied to and manipulated. This is no different.
QUOTE (fancynewsammy @ Aug 19 2007, 06:33 AM)
That's great, Sharpie! That has to be a very liberating feeling.
I just got another hit from someone who I'm almost positive is playing games with his profile (but I'm not quite as sure as I am about the other two I "caught"). And in his "hit" he asked for my e-mail address right away. Uh, no.
If this is the way it's going to be I'm not doing this anymore. I mentioned in another thread about how I hate being lied to and manipulated. This is no different.
I just got another hit from someone who I'm almost positive is playing games with his profile (but I'm not quite as sure as I am about the other two I "caught"). And in his "hit" he asked for my e-mail address right away. Uh, no.
If this is the way it's going to be I'm not doing this anymore. I mentioned in another thread about how I hate being lied to and manipulated. This is no different.
Give us his email sammy. We'll play with him.
J/K . . . . . .I'm kidding . . . . . I'm totally kidding . . . . .
QUOTE (mixedberries @ Aug 19 2007, 09:05 AM)
Give us his email sammy. We'll play with him.
J/K . . . . . .I'm kidding . . . . . I'm totally kidding . . . . .
J/K . . . . . .I'm kidding . . . . . I'm totally kidding . . . . .
Oh, that is soooo evil....and so brilliant.
QUOTE (SharpSchruter @ Aug 18 2007, 10:59 PM)
WHEW!!!!!!!! Can I just tell you all how happy I am right now???
I am FINALLY over a guy I've been "in-love" with for a year and a half.
Usually when I see him my heart skips a beat or two, and I just can't stop thinking of how perfect we would be together...we are so similar it's ridiculous and to top it off I'm incredibly attracted to him.
But today...ohhhh...today I am FREE!!!!!!!!!!
I spent the whole day talking to him at a wedding. Don't get me wrong, nothing about him has changed. He's still the same great guy, but maybe I'm the one who has changed?
All I know is that when we both left that wedding, I let him go. AND I FEEL AMAZING!!!
Now I am free to pursue and to be pursued And I AM single....anyone anyone?
I am FINALLY over a guy I've been "in-love" with for a year and a half.
Usually when I see him my heart skips a beat or two, and I just can't stop thinking of how perfect we would be together...we are so similar it's ridiculous and to top it off I'm incredibly attracted to him.
But today...ohhhh...today I am FREE!!!!!!!!!!
I spent the whole day talking to him at a wedding. Don't get me wrong, nothing about him has changed. He's still the same great guy, but maybe I'm the one who has changed?
All I know is that when we both left that wedding, I let him go. AND I FEEL AMAZING!!!
Now I am free to pursue and to be pursued
And I AM single....anyone anyone? That is AWESOME Sharpie! Few things feel better then finally getting over someone.
I pined for a couple of years over 2 girls when I was 21 - 24. I was so relieved to get over them.
QUOTE (fancynewsammy @ Aug 19 2007, 07:33 AM)
That's great, Sharpie! That has to be a very liberating feeling.
I just got another hit from someone who I'm almost positive is playing games with his profile (but I'm not quite as sure as I am about the other two I "caught"). And in his "hit" he asked for my e-mail address right away. Uh, no.
If this is the way it's going to be I'm not doing this anymore. I mentioned in another thread about how I hate being lied to and manipulated. This is no different.
I just got another hit from someone who I'm almost positive is playing games with his profile (but I'm not quite as sure as I am about the other two I "caught"). And in his "hit" he asked for my e-mail address right away. Uh, no.
If this is the way it's going to be I'm not doing this anymore. I mentioned in another thread about how I hate being lied to and manipulated. This is no different.
This is the curse of being too hot, Sammy. Those guys are going to ridiculous lengths to meet you.
You're like a big fat seal amidst a pack of sharks. Now that I've typed that and read it back, I must say that's probably the worst analogy I could have possible given
Comparing a female to a 'fat seal' is probably never a good idea.
QUOTE (Rocker Creed @ Aug 19 2007, 02:08 PM)
This is the curse of being too hot, Sammy. Those guys are going to ridiculous lengths to meet you.
You're like a big fat seal amidst a pack of sharks. Now that I've typed that and read it back, I must say that's probably the worst analogy I could have possible given Comparing a female to a 'fat seal' is probably never a good idea.
You're like a big fat seal amidst a pack of sharks. Now that I've typed that and read it back, I must say that's probably the worst analogy I could have possible given
Comparing a female to a 'fat seal' is probably never a good idea. I can think of only two people who could get away with saying that to me. You're one of them.
QUOTE (fancynewsammy @ Aug 19 2007, 01:14 PM)
I can think of only two people who could get away with saying that to me. You're one of them.
Thanks! I think....
Let me play. I'll be a manatee.
Good for you sharpie!! You must feel like a whole new person letting go of all those feelings. Men be on the look out! sharpie is out and ready to date!
I found a reason why it sucks sometimes to be single. I was talking to nick and we weren't saying anything and I was rubbing his bad foot and I was just looking at him and thinking no one will ever understand the way he does. It's nice to have a person that can talk to you with out really talking and someone who doesn't mind your faults cause they like how they make you you.
I found a reason why it sucks sometimes to be single. I was talking to nick and we weren't saying anything and I was rubbing his bad foot and I was just looking at him and thinking no one will ever understand the way he does. It's nice to have a person that can talk to you with out really talking and someone who doesn't mind your faults cause they like how they make you you.
Aww, lizzie, that's so sweet! 
QUOTE (Rocker Creed @ Aug 19 2007, 03:08 PM)
You're like a big fat seal amidst a pack of sharks. Now that I've typed that and read it back, I must say that's probably the worst analogy I could have possible given Comparing a female to a 'fat seal' is probably never a good idea.
Comparing a female to a 'fat seal' is probably never a good idea.Yeah, I would have thought twice before hitting "Add Reply"!!
!!! That was funny--I liked that!
By pure chance, I came across the fact that an ex (yes, Diapers, the one I worked with) is checking into my hotel in a month. It was a thousand years ago, but it did not end well, and I...am...freaked. 
QUOTE (CountChocula @ Aug 20 2007, 01:31 PM)
By pure chance, I came across the fact that an ex (yes, Diapers, the one I worked with) is checking into my hotel in a month. It was a thousand years ago, but it did not end well, and I...am...freaked.
Are you freaked in a good way or bad way?
QUOTE (Rocker Creed @ Aug 20 2007, 02:33 PM)
Are you freaked in a good way or bad way?
Bad, very bad. I was young and naive and easily devastated. I like to think I've matured since then, but apparently, I'm still angry. Who knew?
Anybody see Ocean's 13? THAT'S what I'd like to do to his room.
QUOTE (CountChocula @ Aug 20 2007, 03:31 PM)
By pure chance, I came across the fact that an ex (yes, Diapers, the one I worked with) is checking into my hotel in a month. It was a thousand years ago, but it did not end well, and I...am...freaked.
Short sheet his bed and replace his shampoo/conditioner with Nair. Or put him in a room like Michaels from The Convention with every known human matter on the walls, bed and floor...
or maybe not
QUOTE (CountChocula @ Aug 20 2007, 03:31 PM)
By pure chance, I came across the fact that an ex (yes, Diapers, the one I worked with) is checking into my hotel in a month. It was a thousand years ago, but it did not end well, and I...am...freaked.
If it freaks you out so much, can you take some of the days off?
QUOTE (CountChocula @ Aug 20 2007, 01:38 PM)
Bad, very bad. I was young and naive and easily devastated. I like to think I've matured since then, but apparently, I'm still angry. Who knew?
Anybody see Ocean's 13? THAT'S what I'd like to do to his room.
Anybody see Ocean's 13? THAT'S what I'd like to do to his room.
Maybe you're still mad about the way you were treated? I imagine at the time you were filled with feelings of hurt, betrayal, sadness and anger. Some of these emotions were tied to your feelings for him, but anger may not be one of them.
When I was 24 I drove across the country to visit my girlfriend. Within minutes of my arrival she broke up with me and borrowed my car for a date. I sat in Denny's devasted waiting for the love of my life to return my car. Yup, I was a total idiot.
Years later I'm still angry. All the other feelings are long gone. She's just a loser from my past. I'm still mad though. Just because the other feelings faded (like the 'love' :barf) doesn't mean I had to lose the anger.
So you may just still be mad (and rightfully so).
QUOTE (Rocker Creed @ Aug 20 2007, 02:46 PM)
Maybe you're still mad about the way you were treated? I imagine at the time you were filled with feelings of hurt, betrayal, sadness and anger. Some of these emotions were tied to your feelings for him, but anger may not be one of them.
When I was 24 I drove across the country to visit my girlfriend. Within minutes of my arrival she broke up with me and borrowed my car for a date. I sat in Denny's devasted waiting for the love of my life to return my car. Yup, I was a total idiot.
Years later I'm still angry. All the other feelings are long gone. She's just a loser from my past. I'm still mad though. Just because the other feelings faded (like the 'love' :barf) doesn't mean I had to lose the anger.
So you may just still be mad (and rightfully so).
When I was 24 I drove across the country to visit my girlfriend. Within minutes of my arrival she broke up with me and borrowed my car for a date. I sat in Denny's devasted waiting for the love of my life to return my car. Yup, I was a total idiot.
Years later I'm still angry. All the other feelings are long gone. She's just a loser from my past. I'm still mad though. Just because the other feelings faded (like the 'love' :barf) doesn't mean I had to lose the anger.
So you may just still be mad (and rightfully so).
Yep, all those things! Thanks RC, nice to know I'm not the only one who carries this stuff around. The airport should charge me extra for the baggage in my head.
QUOTE (CountChocula @ Aug 20 2007, 01:58 PM)
Yep, all those things! Thanks RC, nice to know I'm not the only one who carries this stuff around. The airport should charge me extra for the baggage in my head.
You'll do fine in dealing with the guy at the hotel. He's just some jerk who wasn't good enough for you anyway.
Your addressing the issue (at least here, with us) and that's 90% of dealing with it. It's the people that bottle things up that have problems with situations like this. But you're handling it great.
So this residual anger over past break-ups, do you think it's more anger at the previous object of affection or anger at ourselves? 
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