I do not ask hubby to do alot of things that I usually do around the house but when I ask him to do it, I would like it to be done in a reasonable time and not later tonight or tomorrow. Again this all hinges on my 'i would rather do it myself than wait for you' concept.

Oy vey.......skiing and golfing are so not on my mind during the day you know!

Has Mrs RC enlightened you any further on why? You know, a good tactic is to keep asking her!

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!! I am sitting here hysterically crying because of my rotten life, and that made me laugh, so thank you!!! I think that is awesome that you want to do that!! But I have to agree with Mrs RC on certain things--like early morning I worry more about bad breath.

Edited at RC's request.

That's because there's very little we don't get around to talking about.


You and your metaphors. . . . . You know we're all going to start looking for hidden meanings in everything you say now.

They don't. If I am not okay with something being done, I am not going to go along with it just to make you happy. I'll say straight out we can do this, but not that and that's it.

It's different for women--if they are not into it or comfortable, they will not enjoy it and then what is the point? At least that's how I feel.

Oh, and that was an awesome comment about the parking lot. I didn't quote it in case you wanted to delete it. Not likely to happen, but still awesome!



Oh, he's not even hiding them anymore!!

Probably should stick to the metaphors, and let the 13-year old around here wonder a bit more.

Agreed--you can delete what I said! I tried to, but I'm past the time limit!!

That's what she said

You know, it really isn't any fun getting here 2 1/2 hours after everyone deleted half of their posts. I wanna be in on the fun!

Think before you post, people!

Or start sending me them in pm's

Trying to meet interesting women in Engineering classes is not easy.

It was my usual rant about not being able to get what I want, when I want it.

I think you have the Wide World of Sports version of the Kama Sutra.

Good one VB!

Either that or you could write one.

I'll second that. If you think engineering classes are bad you should try computer science.

Over the last couple weeks, I've started having an 'explicit' relationship with a girl at my work. Apparently, it's just physical, but I think she might like me more than that. Anyways, the really big problem, is that she has a boyfriend.

That could be a problem.

This doesn't sound good scotty . . . .

Is the boyfriend a big guy? 'Cause that could be a big problem.

scotty, break it off. This is wrong, wrong, wrong.

Guys, I'm ending this, so you don't have to worry. I'm not that comfortable with it for a few reasons. One, the whole boyfriend thing. I don't want to screw up whatever they got, even though I guess I did already. The thing is, he knows she cheats on him, and he accepts it. Still, I feel bad. Second, I think she's going to start to get feelings for me, and I don't want that. I think that if this happened, things would get awkward and wierd, and I don't want that. Better to end things now.

You didn't ruin their relationship scotty. It sounds like there are some serious problems anyway, not the least of which is HER. Don't get me wrong, you've been a very bad boy, but the bottom line is this can't be good for anyone here. Get out now, and good luck scotty. We worry about you.

Yeah, I agree with everyone else. Walk away and see what happens. But it doesn't sound like you're all that interested in her anyway.

atleast scotty gets to go out using pick up lines again now. watch out ladies!

Last semester my friend gave me his ID to the lab for computer science majors ONLY (because of an emergency). It was like walking into...well...I'm going to be nice and just say that I completely agree with you BTB, because what girls were there...





Couldn't say it better.

I don't recall him ever stopping .

How do i read this?

I've started having an 'explicit' relationship with a girl at my work.

I've started having an 'explicit' relationship with a girl that i work with.


?????????

As an outsider, the easy thing to say is to put this on ice. I guess you are going to have to decide if any pleasure that you are experiencing, is worth losing a job or blood. This boyfriend might turn into a nut, and cause a problem.

I gave into a physical relationship with a coworker once, and once it ended (because of her bad attitude) work was awkward. We actually thought that we had pulled the wool over everyones' eyes at work. People you work with always know.

Sometimes they know before you do!

We had a couple of employees get written up for that a few years ago ! Thankfully it wasn't on my desk!

Mrs RC liked to make-out in the storage room, but I wouldn't have gone any farther then that.

I think that was true in my case. I was the only guy there.

Riiight.

You expect us to believe that, especially with all you have been carrying on about the past few days?

Brings a whole new meaning to "taking work home"...

If she wanted to go further and it was really important to her, then of course. I would not have initiated anything further.

I love to read your posts! That's all I'm going to say!

This could be grounds for a called off engagement

We need to talk.... I mean really Scotty?

( side note. today I saw a old friend and the first thing she asked me.. are you married yet.. I wanted to punch her)

That's just stupid, and for obvious reasons. First, if you're really concerned, she should look at your hand. Are you wearing an engagement ring and/or wedding band? Second, actually HAVE the conversation. Inevitably the spouse/significant other comes up.

I don't like nosy people. On the flip side, one time this annoying guy was hitting on me at work and I said, "I'm sorry, I'm married"--never mind the ring and the big picture on my desk. His response? "YOU'RE married?"--emphasis on the you're. Not shock at the marriage, apparently, no, shock that someone would marry me. Which is exactly what I said. "Why are you so shocked that someone would marry me? Five seconds ago you were hitting on me"

He didn't talk to me or walk past my desk for a week. Point is, everyone should mind their business when it comes to dating/marriage/etc.

My first reaction after pams post..oh scotty's in trouble, then i got to the end. I had to laugh. I'd want to punch her too. Scotty make sure you keep some distance from pam. I bet she has a mean punch.

You two sound like Hot Lips and Ferret Face!


Yeah, that questions deserves physical violence.


I'm nosy. Only here we call it 'nebby.' Actually, I really care about people, and I want to help them with my vast wisdom and knowledge.

Some single people are contantly checking out the competition, as well as the opposite sex. My friend Sheree can spot an engagement ring at 100 yards.

My mom is better. She did it at about 200 yards or so. Yes, I am serious, it was at a concert and the singer had one on. I was in the front row and didn't see it.

Sheree is probably older than your mom. Her eyes aren't so good anymore.

Well it doesn't matter to me it's still impressive.

Scotty, how's the break-up going? You know we're here to support you, but you need to keep some eventualities in mind.

Such as, what if she shows up with giant chesticles to try to win you back?




I'm just saying...

I wasn't expecting that, but you make a good point.

Yeah, but you usually wait until people actually offer some information and then you ask questions and offer helpful advice.

I admit to being nosy when asking/acquiring/begging for information. Why be shy about it?

Don't get me wrong--I am one of the nosiest people out there. But when it comes to when are you going to find a boyfriend/get married/have kids, I get angry. This may have something to do with an incident when I was 23. I had just broken up with my boyfriend of 7 years, and out of town relatives who I don't even like came to visit. I came downstairs in sweats, no makeup, hair a mess because I just didn't care that they were there. My aunt, my old, fat aunt who married my lawyer uncle and hasn't gotten off her fat a$$ since, said to me "How do you expect to find a husband looking like that?" Needless to say, I went off on her, I don't need a husband to be a contributing member of society, I'm 23, blah, blah, blah. So that kind of bothered me.

Actually, my aunt is pretty decent and she is very sick now, so I feel bad for saying that. The two of them are a weird couple, but that's a story for the Family thread one day!

Is that a mirror in your pocket?


Leave it to Roy to point out my grammar.


Pam wubs me no matter what I do....right..??... *awkward*




It's not really a "break up", because there really is no relationship. It's more of a "no more working from home".

Yeah today has been a VERY long day... I am not in a nice mood.
Actually I have never punched anyone... my angry look and fire in my eyes tends to scare them away before I get close enough to punch them.

Scotty could always be the first.



I will wub you no matter what.. but that does not mean I will not like your choices. She really has a boyfriend? I mean really you know better than to mess with a taken woman. And I KNOW you are not just in it for the physical because you know how I feel about THAT subject...

Yeah.. the lady saw my ring I had from target on my hand and asked me if I was married I said " oh good Lord no" she looked at me funny and said so who is the boy.. I looked at her and said there is no boy. I swear I wanted to scream... what I have to have a boy at this time? it was like she said oh you are happy you must have a boy.. argg