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The Pam Dichotomy S4 is the third installment of in-depth analysis and discussion of Pam's emotional, psychological, and behavioral patterns as they relate to JAM. Each week a new analysis is posted dissecting Pam's psyche on scene by scene basis. Each post includes interactive questions (QTP) aimed at inciting intelligent and fun discussion. Please feel free to join in and add your thoughts and observations!

Motto:
Argue with grace. This thread is all about exchanging ideas and observations. Disagreements are bound to arise, so please remember to respect and appreciate opposing viewpoints. This is an open forum with plenty of room for different ideas. Debating is encouraged, but keep it civil and graceful! Thanks! smile.gif

Episode Links:
Each link will take you to the page of the original analysis for each episode and the start of all subsequent discussion for that episode. Check it out to catch up on or relive discussion on previous episodes! New links will be added for each new episode.

Fun Run (scroll down to Post #2)
Dunder Mifflin Infinity
Launch Party
Money
Local Ad
Branch Wars
Survivor Man
The Deposition
Dunder Mifflin Infinity - Newpeat Addendum
Hiatus Theories: Public vs. Private Theory, Uncertain Jim Theory (JP)
Dinner Pary
Chair Model
Night Out
Did I Stutter?
Job Fair
Goodbye, Toby - Part 1
Goodbye, Toby - Part 2

Season 4 JAM Playlist:
For each episode a new song is added.

Fun Run: Sing Me Sweet - Matt Nathanson
DMI: These Are Days - 10, 000 Maniacs
Launch Party: Under the Moonlight - Travis
Money: How Sweet Is Is (To Be Loved By You) - Marvin Gaye
Local Ad: N/A
Branch Wars: Crash and Burn - Savage Garden
Survivor Man: I'll Always Be Right There - Bryan Adams
The Deposition: When You Say Nothing at All - Keith Whitley or Alison Krauss
Hiatus: Don't Leave Home - Dido
Dinner Party: Two Hearts - Phil Collins
Chair Model: 18th Floor Balcony - Blue October
Job Fair: This is Your Life - Switchfoot
Goodbye, Toby: Breathless - The Corrs

The Office Convention Adventures:
Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7, Part 8


Reference Links:
Visit the parnter thread to the PDS4 to get the other side of the story.

The Jim Paradox S4

Use these links to revisit previous seasons on the PD and JP.

The Pam Dichotomy (original)
Summative analysis of Pam in Seasons 1 & 2 focusing primarily on her emotional duality.

The Pam Dichotomy S3
Partner thread for the Jim Paradox S3 that explores Pam's character development on emotional and psychological levels with emphasis on how her behavior impacts JAM.

The Jim Paradox (original)
Summative analysis of Jim in Seasons 1 & 2 exploring the paradox of his emotional status and his actions.

The Jim Paradox S3
Partner thread for The Pam Dichotomy S3 that explores Jim's character development on emotional and psychological levels with emphasis on how his behavior impacts JAM.

Commonly Used Acronyms:
PD - Pam Dichotomy
JP - Jim Paradox
CN - Casino Night
FNB - Fancy New Beesly
QTP - Questions to Ponder

Click here for a complete listing of message board lingo. The very last page has the most current acronyms.

One more thing: Have Fun! laugh.gif
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Fun Run

In the very last scene of Season 3, Pam was literally in the throws of euphoria as Jim asked her out to dinner. Two months later, the euphoria continues as Jim and Pam finally found a way to be together. Pam is literally exuding joy through every pore of her being. This joy is undoubtedly from her newfound relationship with Jim, but it’s also a product of Pam’s transformation into FNB. Pam’s self confidence and assertiveness is obviously apparent in her first scene in Fun Run. Her internal make-over has now transferred externally with new clothes, a new hair-do and a glowing smile that rarely leaves her face. Even her walk is lighter as the weight of self consciousness has lifted. She is a new woman and she loves who she has become. It’s good to see all of Pam’s hard work last season has paid off. Pam is truly happy for the first time in really long time. Jim is in her life and she is chasing her dreams. Although there was no mention of her artistic ambitions, a large set of colored pencils sits on her desk. (look closely as she comforts a crying Angela). Art is something she is still pursuing and hopefully this season will bring more progress in her endeavors. Pam has created a new life for herself full of new possibilities. However, Pam’s transformation into FNB is still ongoing. Pam has truly reinvented herself, but now comes the critical step in maintaining FNB. There are still traces of insecurity remaining, but Pam is consciously working towards overcoming hurdles. In a few instances in this episode, she forced herself to confront an hurdle that stands in her way.
Pam’s indelible giddiness throughout the episode was as endearing as it was contagious. Seeing Pam find so much happiness with Jim is truly the payoff all JAM fans have waited to see since Season 1. It’s been a given all along that Jim could make her happy more so than Roy on his best day. Fun run provided unequivocal proof that Jim knows exactly what Pam needs and will give it to her. It was glorious watching Jim and Pam find so much joy and happiness in one another, but little alarms are also blaring. Jim and Pam have entrenched themselves into their own little world in which they alone populate. As most new couples, they are in the lightheaded, euphoric honeymoon period of their relationship. The second chance nature of their relationship only amplifies the sense of euphoria. Both are more than aware of how lucky they are to be with one another, given the tumultuous nature of their relationship last year. “The bubble” that Jim and Pam have been able to create for themselves is essentially a new escape tactic that both have enabled to simply enjoy some time together, before the magnitude of their feelings hits with a deafening roar. Keeping their relationship a secret from everyone adds to the bubble as it keeps the dream going in place of reality. Once the relationship becomes reality, the deeper issues hiding in both of them will come to the surface. They both have strong feelings for one another and it’s obvious they haven’t talked about it yet. Right now they are focused on making up for lost time. They actually need this time alone to simply reconnect and have fun with one another. Their relationship is still very new, which means time is needed to explore and find a safe place where emotional honesty and trust can be built.
The season opener answered so many questions in regards to JAM’s status, but it has left gaping holes as well. No specific timeline was given in terms of how long they’ve been dating. Furthermore, there is almost no information about what Jim and Pam have discussed concerning their feelings. There’s no solid evidence about whether the past is going to be left in the past or if it’s going to be an issue between them. Perhaps the most perplexing is the absence of Jim and Pam’s first date. The only known fact is that they went on that date and it apparently went very well. There’s a big gap between The Job and Fun Run where any number of things could’ve happened to lead Jim and Pam to their current status. Until the events of the interim are revealed, it’s difficult to ascertain JAM’s relationship with any certainty. But, it’s worth a shot! smile.gif

Reference Links:
All reference links have been placed on the first post of this thread. Click here for episode links, previous PD/JP threads, and general information. I’ve added a number of new features to this season’s threads, so be sure to check it out!

JAM Playlist Song:
Sing Me Sweet
Artist: Matt Nathanson
Album: Beneath These Fireworks

Click here for lyrics

Happy Reading! smile.gif

At Pam’s Desk:
Pam is leaning on her desk with Jim by her side as the IT guy tries to fix her computer. Both are clearly basking in the other's presence. They are both very relaxed and friendly in their body language as they’re not afraid to be close. The IT guy proceeds to inform Pam of some computer don’ts as he tries to fix her crashed computer. He asks what exactly she was doing and surprisingly, she admits she clicked on ad for a celebrity sex tape. There’s no way of knowing if she did it on purpose or on accident (I’ve sadly done it on accident! Oooops. Those pop-ups are sneaky!), but the interesting thing about it is that she can find the humor in her error. Old Pam would have turned bright red, weighed down in self consciousness. Instead, FNB looks to Jim and laughs it off with friendly banter. Jim asks her, “Really, what kind of celebrity?” She smiles and playfully answers “Not relevant” as she looks down at her desk. Jim prods her further by asking how much she paid for it and she again answers, “Not relevant” in response. She can’t help but relish his teasing as he says, “You paid for it?!” She looks right at him smiling and laughing on the inside as she says, “It all happened so fast.” She smiles wider in response to his shocked smile. She knows Jim is completely floored by this revelation, but she doesn’t get flustered or defensive. FNB doesn’t get embarrassed anymore, instead she finds a way to laugh at herself. It’s just another amazing characteristic that has developed in FNB. It’s another indicator that Pam is continuing to grow.

Talking Head #1:
Pam’s glow continues to dance across her face as she tells the camera about the aftermath of The Job, “Jim and I went to dinner a few times when he got back from New York. The joy she feels inside refuses to be contained no matter how hard she tries. A smile continually sneaks out as she speaks. The story is obviously rehearsed as she can barely keep a straight face. Here eyebrows raise and her mouth pulls back a little, almost begging the camera crew to buy her story. Furthermore, her facial tics indicate she is desperate to blab. She wants to tell the world how she feels, but she is held back by keeping the relationship a secret. It’s hard for her to hold back something so big and wonderful after she learned how to remove the barriers to her emotions last season. She continues the charade by explaining she “talked him through his breakup.” The statement is supposed to throw the camera crew off the scent by making it seem like their date was simply two friends going out to dinner. Her face is again attempting to sell her story, but it’s hard not to notice her eyes light up at the demise of Jim and Karen’s relationship. She pauses to grin and shrug, reliving the thrill that Jim dumped Karen and came back to her. Pam may have liked Karen as a person, but she didn’t like her anywhere near Jim. Pam caps off her story by saying, “It's really nice to be good friends again.” This may have been part of the “show” but it’s something Pam really means. Her face is much more relaxed as this isn’t something she needs to sell to anyone. She missed Jim’s friendship last season and now she has him back in her life. He is still her best friend regardless of the status of their relationship. The missing piece of her life is finally back in place.

Weekend Plans:
The charade continues at Pam’s desk as Pam discusses weekend plans with Jim. She tells him she is going to a flea market and he counters with a mountain bike ride. This is purely for show for everyone around them. The conversation is light and casual, but there is an air of feigned interest on both sides. It’s a made up story with no foundation, meant only to throw people off the trail. Pam’s face is even a little amused as they run their lines. She is enjoying the game of keeping their relationship a secret. For the first time in a long time, they have the equivalent of an inside joke. In a sense they’re colluding on a prank on everyone in the office. It’s fun, exciting and with Jim. Humor has always connected them and it’s clear they are finding the fun in their situation. It almost makes sense that the beginning of their relationship is coupled with a little prank. The need to reconnect is being met by the secret they share. It’s just between them, therefore creating a bubble that is their own little world. Playing the game keeps everyone out of the bubble, allowing them to just be with one another without distraction. The bubble is a nice escape from reality, a special place that only they know about. It’s a perfect place to rebuild a friendship and explore "more than that" without feeling the heat of co-worker curiosity or being the subject of office gossip. Pam has always been a private person, so the idea of keeping the relationship a secret has a certain amount of appeal for her.

Pam vs. Accounting:
In a glorious display of FNB, Pam takes on accounting as both Kevin and Angela give her reason to spread her wings. In her usual warm voice she says, “Hey guys, we're all gonna visit Meredith for lunch. And were kicking in $5 for flowers.” Kevin immediately begins to prod her about Jim, “Who's we, you and Jim?” She doesn’t flinch one bit as she responds, “No, uh, me Stanley and Phyllis so far.” Kevin doesn’t give up as he continue to “investigate,” “Oh, I bet Jim goes too.” Pam continues to show composure making sure Kevin doesn’t break into the bubble, “ Yeah, I haven't asked him yet.” Still refusing to relent, Kevin tries again, “Oh, I bet you ask.” Pam is now getting amused at Kevin’s persistence knowing full well he’s getting frustrated at her lack of information. She smiles slightly as she responds, “I was planning on it.” Kevin tries on last time with “I bet you were,” but Pam has decided she’s had enough. With Kevin, it’s just going to be one long endless circle. She breaths out a breath of her own frustration as she turns her attention to Angela to ask if she is coming to the hospital. Angela’s excuse of her sick cat does not impress Pam. In this situation, Pam’s compassion is geared towards Meredith and not a sick cat. When Michael explained Meredith had been hit by a car, Pam was immediately effected. Her face was genuinely full of anxiety and worry. Angela’s lack of concern for Meredith is unacceptable to Pam, which sends FNB into action. Pam asks, “Can't your other cats keep her company?” as a soft way to convince Angela that she needs to visit Meredith. Angela’s response, “There's bad blood, jealousies, cliques,” only irritates Pam more as she watches Angela trying to wiggle out of seeing Meredith. Unwilling to let Angela win, Pam pulls out the big guns, “Angela, you're the chairman of the party planning committee. I shouldn't even be planning this, it's your job.” Pam knows how seriously Angela takes her job of being the PPC chairman and knew this would give her a good hard kick in the pants. Pam can’t get Angela to care about Meredith, but she can at least get her do the right thing. Pam bobs her head into a victory nod and smiles. She’s proud of herself for standing up to Angela. Furthermore, she wasn’t afraid or hesitant to do so. Her reaction to her victory indicates that Pam is very much aware of her continuing transition into FNB. Pam is still making a conscious effort to maintain her newly acquired assertiveness. Last season, she went through the growing pains of recreating herself and now she in the process of refining those changes.

Break Room #1:
Pam sits with Jim in the break room along with several other co-workers, enjoying a soda as he munches on popcorn. The body language between them is again relaxed and comfortable. Her shoulders are loose and her hands are openly on the table, without fear of being close to Jim. Jim mirrors her with loose shoulders and a relaxed stance. There is no tension between them. This could be a result of the honeymoon stage of their relationship, but it’s hard not to wonder where the tension that characterized their relationship for a year has gone. Pam’s yogurt lid may have healed wounds, but it’s not a magic wand. That tension has either been dealt with or swept under the rug. Given the sense of euphoria between them, there must be a broom in the corner somewhere. Neither wants to pop the bubble to deal with reality. Pam is beyond thrilled to have Jim back in her life and the last thing she wants to do is remind him why he was gone for so long.
Michael makes an appearance in the break room to make announcement, which he quickly forgets due to jabs from Oscar and Phyllis. After recovering from his flustered state, he starts to defend himself for hitting Meredith, by suggesting they plant a tree as a way to focus on something more positive than the tragedy at hand. Again annoyed at the lack of concern for Meredith, FNB steps into action, “Okay, we're leaving for the hospital at 1.” She want to get everyone’s mind back where it belongs, but Michael refuses to play along. She ignores his attempt to shift the topic back to the tree and immediately changes the subject to carpooling and formulating a plan for a card to give to Meredith. Furthermore, she stretches her FNB muscle by planning times for specific times for when groups can go and visit Meredith. This take charge attitude is entirely new for Pam, but she is embracing it completely. Unfortunately, Michael refuses Pam’s plan, despite her best attempts to stand up to him. She tried three times to get Michael to listen to and accept her plan, which is pretty amazing. Old Pam would’ve given up after the first time. Pam reluctantly gives into Michael, but she isn’t defeated. There isn’t a trace of being self conscious, only annoyance at Michael’s attention span and one track mind. Go FNB!

Conference Room #1 - Religion:
During Michael’s insane religious discussion, Pam and Jim are situated at opposite ends of the conference table. Again, they are playing the game of keeping a secret. Sitting apart just expands the illusion that nothing is going on between them. However, they have a clear view of each other to swap non-verbal jokes and communication. Just when neither is able to handle any more of Michael’s ramblings, Jim provides an escape plan by offering to do some research on Michael’s sacrificial mythical animal. Pam picks up on it right away and says, “I can help you with that.” It’s a glowing example of how communication lines are reconnecting between Pam and Jim. She jumps up and joins Jim in exiting the conference room, while everyone else remains stuck in Michael’s insanity. The symbolism behind this scene is undeniable. Pam joins Jim as they head into their own little world, where it’s just the two of them. They’ve given the slip to everyone as they engage in their own little escape from reality. This scene is just a different way of depicting the bubble. The discomfort and tedium of Michael’s madness is representative of dealing with the deeper issues of their relationship. Walking out of the conference room is the equivalent of entering the bubble zone which blocks all that distracts from the euphoria of a new relationship.

Picking Up Jim/Talking Head #2 (Overlap):
The game continues as Pam walks out to her car alone, with the intention of picking up Jim down the street. Apparently, they’ve done this before, as the orchestration of the act is perfect. She pulls off to the side of the street and waits with her head on the steering wheel, probably as a way to obscure her face should anyone drive by while she waits. Within seconds, Jim arrives and hurriedly gets into the car wearing a huge dorky grin on his face, (Awwwww). She leans towards him expectantly, waiting for the inevitable and now familiar kiss. He obliges by leaning over to give her a quick kiss, while also reaching up to lightly touch her face, (insert squeal). It’s a perfectly tender moment in a matter of seconds. Obviously, this is an act that’s been perfected during the short term of their relationship. She smiles widely after the kiss, elated from his touch. As she drives away, both are giggling and wearing mischievous grins denoting their belief that they’ve gotten away with their little secret once again. They are proud of themselves for keeping the bubble intact for yet another day. The fun and excitement of it all has yet to wear off. They are enjoying every second of their subterfuge and each other.
In an interesting side note, Pam is the one driving. It’s very symbolic of Pam’s role in the relationship. She is clearly taking the lead in JAM so far. She is driving him “home” and he is along for the ride. She has taken the lead on everything else in her life, so it stands to reason she is doing the same with Jim. Mainly because she knows he is incapable of moving things along at this point. She is the glue keeping them together.
As the scene plays out, an overlapping talking head has Pam reasserting her claim that she is not dating anyone. The game is in full swing as Pam tries to convince the camera crew that she is single. Her tone is adamant, but soft at the same time. Pam can’t hide the sheer warmth that she feels from her relationship. She is comfortable and free from the weight that hung around her neck for years. All the angst and pain from the last year is absent from her voice. Pam continues to reinforce her assertion by adding, “And even if I was, I don’t think it’s anyone’s business.” This is meant to get the camera crew off her case, but it’s also an indicator of Pam’s usual need for privacy. If she can keep something to herself, she will. It’s a characteristic that has been around since the beginning. Both Pam and FNB protect her privacy. However, this statement’s primary purpose is furthering the game of keeping her relationship with Jim secret. It isn’t just a privacy issue for Pam herself, it’s for both of them. They need to maintain the bubble to keep their little fantasy world alive. The excitement and “high” of the new relationship is amplified by the secrecy and neither wants to let that go, yet. Pam continues to pile on reassurance of her single status by stating, “I mean, when I do fall in love, like when it’s for real . . .” Again, this is meant to throw off the camera, but it’s clear as day that she is completely in love. Her voice softens when she says the word “love.” It’s been literally years since she’s loved anyone openly, without hiding. It’s this softness that shows emotional honesty is something Pam has embraced. She knows how she feels and she isn’t afraid. However, she isn’t about to shout it from the rooftops, “ . . . the last person I’m going to talk about it to is a camera crew or my co-workers.” Apparently, Pam has learned her lesson. The only person who needs to know the truth, is the one that really matters. There’s no way of knowing if Pam has told Jim exactly how she feels, but it’s obvious she is showing him. Regardless, Jim is somewhat aware of how she feels one way or the other. It may be a secret from the world, but it’s not a total secret from him.
The next segment of her talking head provides some interesting insight into Pam’s transition into FNB. She says, “Almost marrying Roy Anderson was as close to Pamela Anderson as I ever want to be.” Just as before, Pam is incredibly conscious of her transition into FNB. She can clearly see the difference of who she was while with Roy and the woman she has become. She loves her new life and her new self. She won’t give it up for anything and will continue to work on growing. For the first time, Pam really is fine with her choices. Mainly because she made them for herself, instead of letting someone choose for her. This statement is essentially saying goodbye to Old Pam for good. Pam understands that she has an unbelievable second chance with Jim and she isn’t going to blow it by returning to her old ways. The past is riddled with could have’s and should have’s. She is more than aware that she is living the life she could have had a year ago. As a result, she is grabbing onto Jim and life in general with all her might, while leaving fear by the wayside.
Pam caps off her talking head by stating, “Trust me, when I fall in love, you’ll know.” It’s again part of the game, but it’s also another indicator of emotional honesty. She knows how she feels, but she is unaware of how easily it plays across her face. She is trying to hide it for the sake of the bubble, but even her voice glows with the reality that she loves Jim. It’s not something she has to keep hidden from herself any longer. She’s allowed herself to feel it, embrace it, and express it to the person who should have known a long time ago.

Staring At Jim:
In a nice throwback to Season 2, the camera catches Pam stealing a look at Jim. She can’t help but smile as she stares at him. Her smile is dripping with love and a sense of nostalgia. Jim is back in his old desk, with his shaggy hair and rolled up sleeves, (yay!). He is right where he belongs and it’s good to have him back. Things are normal again, with the added bonus of their new relationship. This feeing of nostalgia is harmless for the moment, but it’s something to keep an eye on. The idea of Jim can create of false impression of the real Jim that sits before her. He appears as though he’s old Jim, but he is a different man than he was on CN. Her face also has a the feeling of disbelief that it’s all really happening. She can’t help but look at him and be thankful for the chance. She let him slip through her fingers once, and she’s not going to let it happen again.

Break Room #2 - Race Strategy:
Pam sits next to Jim in the break room, enjoying a bag of chips as he asks her, “So What’s your strategy for this race?” Pam replies with a healthy dose of playful banter, “Well, I’m gonna start fast . . .Then I’m gonna run fast in the middle . . .” Jim plays along with her “strategy” by feigning surprise, “What?” Pam continues the banter, “Then I’m gonna end fast.” Jim keeps the joke going by asking, “Why won’t more people do that?” Pam lightly laughs and responds, “Cause they’re stupid.” It’s a fun little moment between them as they trade sarcastic jokes, just as they did before the Great Divide of last year. It’s another example of how Jim and Pam’s connection continues to strengthen as does their ability to play off one another. Before they can play any further, the camera interrupts them. Both Pam and Jim are confused by the camera’s presence, unsure of why it’s so focused on them. Pam is noticeably weirded out by the close proximity of the camera. She doesn’t like the crew prying into the bubble. They are invading her little world. When silence ensues, Jim finally asks, “What?”

Conference Room #2 - Caught:
Pam and Jim sit in the conference room as if they are sitting in the principal’s office. They silently watch the video evidence of their secret playing on the TV screen. Pam looks immediately to Jim, without saying a word to the cameras. She is waiting for Jim to speak first. Pam knows they’ve been caught and there’s no way out of it, but she still waits for him to make the next play. From this point on, it’s clear that the game was Jim’s idea, not hers. He is the lead player. Jim fumbles for an answer, “Oh, ah... No that's not... I mean that wasn't, ah…” Pam knows he has nothing, but she is quick to back him up, “Yeah... That was um…” hoping to give him the boost he needs to come up with something brilliant. Unfortunately, Jim stumbles further, “I mean I can see how it would seem a bit like we uh... How it looks like um... I mean nowadays you can edit anything, right? I mean you can edit anything to look like um... Anything.” She watches him, while slightly nodding her head, but she knows he’s not convincing anyone. He needs a little more help so she tries to give him another set-up, “Yeah, I gave him a ride home because…” Pam looks at Jim hoping he can piggyback on her prompt. She’s silently telling him, C’mon honey fill in the blank, but instead he simply says, “Right.” She realizes he’s expecting her to finish the sentence. Knowing Jim’s mind is blank and they’ve been caught red-handed, Pam blurts the truth, “. . . We’re dating.” Jim is shocked she told the truth, but she is thrilled to finally let it all out in the open. It felt good to let her true feelings out. After last year, she is not a fan of holding in her emotions. In all likelihood, they haven’t talked about their relationship status in specific terms or their feelings. This is the first time it’s been defined as anything. Pam may have been waiting for Jim to find a way to play the game, but she was also waiting to see if he was going to give a relationship status indicator. Her phrase, “we’re dating” was almost a guess. Since he wouldn’t or hasn’t defined their relationship, she jumped in and gave it a name for the first time. In connection to the concept that Pam is in the driver’s seat, she is again taking the lead. FNB knows no bounds as she again rises to the challenge. Jim’s reaction of surprise isn’t just for her revealing the truth, it’s also for defining the relationship. She looks to him after saying it, unsure of how he’ll react . She smiles widely shortly after she knows Jim accepts the status she designated. Knowing she has his approval, she says “Ah, yeah” with conviction, as if this is the first time she has a clear idea on where the relationship is going. Her tone is unmistakably indicative that this also is the first time they’ve acknowledged their status to anyone, including themselves. Although, there is agreement on where they stand, there is still a little touch of insecurity. Pam continues to say, “ We haven't told anybody, but it's going really great. . . Right?” It’s true they haven’t told anybody yet, including each other! She is even a little flushed at the exhilaration of defining the relationship. For her, everything is going great. Pam is ready to be with Jim and has no hang-ups. She is all smiles and gushing with love, but it all stops for a brief moment, when Jim hesitates to verify her statement. Her heart literally stops. She looks to him a little confused, even a little hurt that he hasn’t jumped right in to join her. She feels the need to prod him a little further with her “Right?” This is a strong sign that there is some insecurity within the relationship. The bubble has popped for the moment, allowing for issues of insecurity, communication, and emotional honesty issues to make their way into the euphoria filled fantasy. Pam knows the relationship is great for her, but she isn’t sure about how Jim is feeling. They aren’t talking about it, and Pam can’t be certain from just reading Jim. She is nudging Jim to communicate his feelings, which indicates communication lines are still on the mend when deeper emotional issues are at hand. There was a time when she wouldn’t need to ask him, she knew by simply looking at him. The goofy grin on his face isn’t enough to convince her that everything really is going great. She needs his verbal reassurance because she doesn’t feel it. He is a little closed off and she can’t get through that wall quite yet. Pam is noticeably relieved when he turns to her and says, “It is going really great.” Her gushy smile resumes along with mushy eyes. The bubble has been restored.

Conference Room #3 - Fun Run Plans:
Pam sits with Jim, Michael, and Dwight to finalize plans for the Fun Run. In particular, they are deciding on how to spend the funds. After a riveting argument over whether the funds should be presented on a big check or not, Pam and Jim share a small non-verbal joke. Dwight’s concern that there would be less money for bat birth control elicits a sarcastic remark from Jim. The joke between them is on. Dwight complains that Michael promised him his money would go towards bat birth control, but Michael explains he didn’t contribute that much money anyway. Pam can’t help but see the humor in this lunacy, so she gives Jim a look paired with raised eyebrows. Both are thinking the same thing and are laughing silently to themselves, much the same way they did in Season 2. Old habits are becoming normal again. The meeting drones on as Pam explains a doctor won’t come by to pick up a check for such a small amount. Jim immediately finds a way to bring humor into the situation by explaining, “You know what though, I actually seen ads for nurses that you can hire by the hour, for parties and bachelor events.” While Michael and Dwight are oblivious, Pam is onto him from the start. She knows what he’s up to and she loves him for it. His ever so slight grin and playful eyes were immediately obvious to her. She looks at him and matches his grin with one of her own, Good one. It’s hard for her to keep in the laughter, but she manages for the sake of the prank. They are once again sharing an inside joke, where there are the only two who know the punch line.

Break Room #3 - After Seeing “It”:
Pam is horrified after walking in on a half naked Michael. She tells the story to Jim in the break room in a very animated fashion. Rather than shutting down or becoming self conscious, Pam shows another facet of FNB. She is grossed out, but she doesn’t blame herself for what happened. She’s even able to find the humor in her situation by using phrases like “dangling participle” to describe Michael’s anatomy. She continues the humor by making fun of Michael when he arrives in the break room. Following Jim’s lead, “You couldn’t have taken off all your clothes in the men’s room?,“ Pam turns the blame on Michael before he can blame her, “On average, how many hours a day to spend naked in your office? Just ballpark.” The statement is sarcastic, meant to put Michael in his place. She knows she did nothing wrong and she’s not about to let Michael pin the fault on her. As predicted Michael tries to shift the blame, “European offices are naked all the time.” Pam immediately fires back, “They're so not.” She manages to get the best of Michael as he begins to defend himself, “Besides my shirt tail covered most of it so…” Pam can’t help herself, she has to jab him one more time, “I didn't see where it started but I saw where it ended.” It’s a bold FNB statement geared at making Michael just as uncomfortable as she was when she walked into his office. Jim backs her up with, “Gross.“ She scored a major victory as Michael begins to get even more defensive by saying Pam should be comfortable seeing a naked body because she’s an artist. Michael tells her to think of him as one of her models. Jim immediately shoots Pam a horrified and humorous face that she can’t help but answer with eye contact. They are both sharing in the humor that is the lunacy of Michael. She smiles slightly as the ridiculousness of Michael’s statements bounces between her and Jim. It’s non-verbal communication at it’s finest.

Holding Hands:
While the rest of the runners take off for the Fun Run, Pam and Jim lag behind. Their lack of interest in running has nothing to do with laziness, but rather with a plan to be able to spend time together. Staying in the back prevents anyone from seeing them together, allowing them to simply spend time alone. Playful sarcasm envelopes Pam’s words, “Oh, we’re in last place.” She is smiling flirtatiously, all too happy to be last as long as Jim is by her side. Jim returns her sentiments with an equally flirtatious tone, “Oh, would you look at that.” She continues to smile and keeps the sarcasm going, “Darn it.” Both are thrilled to have a time alone with no one watching. To her surprise, Jim reaches for her hand. She looks down at his fingers interlocking with hers and smiles. She looks up at him, likely feeling the needed reassurance of his feelings for her. She is thrilled he initiated, which indicates this isn't something he does all the time. The bubble continues to surround them as they happily hold onto one another.

Estate Sale:
Jim and Pam arrive hand in hand at an estate sale. Jim playfully suggests they stop to take a look. Pam finds him absolutely adorable that he would stop at a garage sale. She responds playfully, “I don’t know I’m really committed to winning.” Jim keeps the joke going by telling her, “OK, but what if I told you all the money you spend here, goes to preventing a disease that's already been cured.” Pam plays along happily and agrees to go in for the purpose of the cause. It’s almost as if playful sarcasm has replaced communicating on too deep a level for the time being. They are still feeling each other out. This scene is a perfect example of how the bubble continues to operate. The sale is another escape where they are away from everyone and they can just be together. The Fun Run is going on around them, but they are simply interested in exploring their relationship further by creating fun and new memories. They are in their own world where playful sarcasm and garage sales are their reality.
Pam emerges from the garage sale carrying an interesting lamp (yuck). She shows it to the camera crew and explains that it was only $8. It’s interesting that she doesn’t ignore the camera as she leaves the house. The camera crew is now part of the bubble and Pam is willing to include them in the relationship. They already know, so it’s a safe zone. In a very girlfriend-like way Pam passes the lamp to Jim, fully expecting him to carry it around. Jim happily responds to the task, “Oh, and I get to carry it.” It may just be a lamp that Pam hands off to Jim, but the symbolism of the hand-off links back to the conference room when they were confronted about their relationship. Pam was essentially carrying the relationship by defining their status. She has the lead role right now, but she’s not willing to carry the whole relationship on her own for much longer. Eventually, Jim is going to have to step in and carry his half. The handing over of the lamp symbolizes her need for him to make the next move. (If you’re reading this be the first to post an argument for or against the symbolism of the lamp hand off. I have a gift for the first respondent. smile.gif )

Taking Care of Michael:
Pam and Jim approach Michael as he sits on the grass, ready to give up. Pam pulls them out of their fantasy world, by disengaging their interlocked hands. Both notice Michael’s deteriorating physical and mental state and immediately begin to take care of him, just as they always have. Michael is annoying, but both Pam and Jim care about him as a person. They try to motivate him through a little teasing, but soon find out that Michael is way past the point of laughing at himself. Jim switches tactics by telling Michael, “Wow! You are a downer. We're having a pretty nice day.” He’s hoping to convince Michael that things aren’t as bad as they seem. Pam plays off of this, but she is also talking directly to Jim, “I’m still having a nice day.” Her time with Jim during the race was fun and relaxing. She loved spending time with him and making memories. Jim knows she’s talking to him and asks, “You are?” Pam smiles at him and responds, “Yeah.” She’s reassuring him that she enjoyed her day with him. Jim’s question may have been playful, but she heard some of the insecure undertones. She had the same feeling in the conference room. As much as she’d like to keep her attention on Jim, Pam redirects her focus to Michael, “Hey Michael look at this lamp. $8.” She’s hoping to motivate Michael by showing him there are good things in this world. It works as Michael can’t help but acknowledge that it was a good deal. Pam kneels down next to Michael and continues to take care of him by saying, “And Michael, you don't have rabies. And chances are you're not going to get it any time soon. So... you don't really have to think about it too much.” She knows Michael wants to do good, but she also knows he’s clueless. Michael tells her, “Pam, if everybody felt that way, nothing would get done.” Pam can appreciate Michael’s philosophy, but she lets him down as softly as she can, “Yeah, but there's other, better people out there who are helping.” This is enough to motivate Michael to prove Pam wrong. He struggles to get up off the ground to finish the race. Pam may not have intended to motivate Michael with reverse psychology (it’s an awesome tool), but she fell right into her role of looking out for Michael, with Jim by her side. It’s a role they’ve had since the very beginning. It oddly connects them in a way other than humor. They both care about other people and are willing to help. While everyone else ran right past Michael, they stopped and tried to get Michael to finish the race. They worked as a team, communicating with one another and with Michael on two different levels. This is a promising sign as Jim and Pam continue to revert to the same level of communication present in Seasons 1 and 2. They are going to need it when the bubble pops.

The Bottom Line:
JAM is floating on air, but the bubble is going to pop when reality comes knocking. Until then, sit back and smile.

Questions to Ponder:

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?

Whew! whew.gif It was hard to clear my head after such an amazing episode. Not only was it heartwarming to see JAM together, but this was a hilarious episode! After 3 years of waiting for Pam to find her way to Jim, it finally happened. I believe there was a collective scream around the world when Jim kissed Pam in the car. In addition, I swear I heard “awwwwww’s” coming from all over when they held hands. How cute was that!? I loved every minute of it, however I’m maintaining my usual mode of tempered optimism. JAM may be together, but now is not the time to overestimate their progress. There are problems between them, just like any couple.
As I’ve mentioned before, this is the first time I’ve analyzed an hour-long episode with only a week in between new episodes. I still have to write up Jim’s end, so I may not be able to respond to QTP answers with my usual fervor. However, I will be reading all responses, so please post those answers! It’s exciting to have 4 hour-long episodes in a row, but it does slow me down. Instead of having only 6 or 7 scenes per episode, hour-long episodes average anywhere from 14 to 16 scenes to analyze. Yikes! It takes me about an hour to analyze each scene. Don’t do the math, the result is scary. Look for the JP update within the next couple of days.
Have fun with the QTP and remember to play nice. This group always offers amazing insight and I’m looking forward to reading everyone’s thoughts on this episode. smile.gif
Lenny9987
I'm reading it right now, SB and I just wanted to say that I almost fell out of my chair with excitement. And I've watched the episode three times today alone. Maybe I'll pop it in and watch again while I read, you know. Get into the right mindset. biggrin.gif
officerules07
YAY, SB!!! This thread made me smile & THEN I saw the update! Unfortunately I have to go to bed now b/c I have to get up @ 4:30AM tomorrow, but I will devour it some time tomorrow after work! Thanks for everything - YOU ROCK!! laugh.gif
officeobsessed
Oh my! I was NOT expecting this tonight. What a happy surprise! I'll print and read tomorrow. A whole new season is upon us! YAY!
just_once
Oh, SB, I've just discovered your post and I've read through it very quickly, but I need to read it again so it will really sink in. (My son and the TV are competing for my attention right now) I'll respond to the QTP's later, hopefully tomorrow night. I may not read anyone else's answers until after I've posted my own. I wish I could stay up later and answer them tonight, but that would get me to bed too late and I'm one of those people who have to have enough sleep to function the next day at work. I look forward to posting tomorrow.
Lenny9987
First to answer QTP Yay!

The first QTP of the new season. It’s as exciting as going back to school shopping. Maybe that doesn’t translate right (I always liked back to school shopping, it’s the going to school itself that’s the downer).

Questions to Ponder:

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?
I’m not sure that the transition is complete. I almost feel that she’s gone too far and needs to reign it in a little bit. Some of what she said to Michael seemed to almost cross a line. But on the whole I do love FNB. A part of me misses the way Old Pam dressed. Maybe she’ll bring some of the sweaters back when the weather changes.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?
I think that the bubble is a good thing? I’m not sure. I don’t think that it’s going to “burst” while it’s really far off the ground. It will probably be one of those where it lands in a puddle and lasts for a little while before gently popping (I hope that makes sense).

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?
Pam does trust Jim. I don’t think she ever really lost trust in Jim (she knew that Jim didn’t trust himself which is different in my book). Pam has more faith in this relationship than she did with Roy. With Roy it was a habit but with Jim there’s active participation and mutual reward. If Pam had told Roy about Michael being indisposed, Roy probably would have blown up at Michael (which would have put her on edge and caused her to tense up; just look at how she reacts when Jan confronts her). Jim helps her to relax over it and joke about it. He certainly doesn’t get jealous or defensive.

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?
I think that the biggest hurdle in the immediate future is what they’ll do and how they’ll act when the rest of the office finds out about their relationship. Based on Kevin’s suspicions and how he was treating them, it should be interesting. Also, Jim is still not happy with his job, even if he does get to see Pam at work on a daily basis. Now that she’s definitely there for him, she’s not going to be the only reason for him to come to work. He’s going to need job satisfaction somewhere along the line. Pam will pursue her art and Jim will go in his own direction and that may be almost as difficult as when they were in two different states (although they’ll be more supportive of one another and should be able to work through it).
bubblewrap_1
Just finished reading it smile.gif I'll try to answer the QTP tomorrow when I'm not so tired tongue.gif I slacked off with the QTP in the middle of season 3- so I'll try to reinstate myself for season 4 laugh.gif
Tim_Halpert
Hey scrantonbranch!

Now I know it's fall ... it's finally time for another season of the PD and the JP and plenty of QTP! Bring it all on, I say! And for openers, you've done a bang-up job once again with the "Fun Run" recap. Let's get right down tp business (btw, the IT guy's character name is Sadiq, for future reference).

Questions to Ponder:

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?

Hmmm ... I'm torn on this. On the one hand, I'm really proud of Pam for completely evolving past her mousy quiet persona of the first two seasons. That's some real growth right there. But I think she is not used to all this happiness. That's the other hand, I got the feeling that there were instances that FNB may have been ... overcompensating a bit. That "right?" to Jim after declaring their love seemed almost like a prompt than a question. She's definitely the dominant one in the relationship, it seems. I don't think the transition to FNB is complete as she may be overshooting the mark right now, just a teensy bit.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?

If by "bubble" you mean the idea that its just the two of them, then it definitely hurts. Because its not just the two of them anymore. The bubble has been compromised: cameras have been allowed into their bubble. Ask Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachay (or Carmen Electra and Dave Narravo) if having cameras present in a relationship leads to domestic bliss. It's kind of a necessary evil, otherwise we the audience would have no idea what was going on with them. They're eventually going to have to go public, and they know it. So the bubble, already tarnished, is not something they should rely on too heavily.

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?

He came back for her. I'd say absolutely she does. wink.gif


4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?

I can see three main hurdles for Pam's JAM:

a) it is a secret romance (thus resulting in stress from the timing/verbal gymnastics to keep it so)
b ) it is an office romance (thus resulting in potentially harmful office gossip)
c) it is a long-awaited romance (thus resulting in possibly all-too-high expectations)


As for the significance of Pam passing the lamp to Jim, the first thing that popped into my head was here is Jim's first official act of boyfriend-hood in front of the cameras: hold whatever the girl hands you. The next thought was that the lamp symbolizes initiative, Pam's been taking the initiative up till now, but she wants him to be making some decisions as well. Just my two cents ... what'd I win???

Great to have you back at this sb!
PBandJAM
Oh I can't wait to think about these. I didn't get to answer the S3 wrap ups. RL just never would allow, but now S4 has so much more to discuss. I'm as giddy as PB&J!
Collapsing_Star
OK, this is a little rushed but I have to post now. The school where I work won't let me post (stupid filter), but I do get to read other responses. Also, my college roommate is in town this week on business so my time on the computer will be limited.

Thanks, SB for posting so quickly. I didn't expect that. Before I answer, I have bounced around on how JAM is doing. After three epsiode viewings, I'm confident that things aren't as great as Jim and Pam think but they're still pretty great. On to the QTP:

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?
FNB has made lots of progress but like anyone, there's still work to be done. She has to be careful not to let her happiness ride entirely on her relationship with Jim. For now, she needs the emotional warmth and security that Jim is providing but she must remember that she developed these traits originally without his support. I think it's really critical to Pam's (and Jim's) psyche that this work. They've made sacrifices and life-altering decisions to be with each other. Just a little pressure. Those high expectations are a potential problem. For example, Pam telling Jim that she was still having a nice day. Jim needed to hear that being with him is enough. Jim will have to do that for her sometimes, too. Like when he reached for her hand. Seems like they're giving assurance to each other.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM's progression as a couple?
In the immediacy, it helps. Almost everyone agreed that they needed to re-discover each other after their time apart. They'd each changed and a reacquaintance is necessary. If they can keep other people from knowing, then they only have their personal lenses to see things through. Outsiders and their opinions could complicate issues. If Michael knew, who knows what would happen. If Kevin or Kelly found out, it's totally out there. They just want time to feel comfortable with each other without the pressure. After Beach Games, their interaction and past was no longer a secret. I think it's crucial that this be kept under wraps for a while. They need the time to focus on each other. I think one of the running themes for S4 will be how long this stays private. I think we'll see the glances and moments for a while just like we did in the premiere. After they feel secure (which they don't feel just yet), they won't care if people know.

Besides, isn't this supposed to be the way the honeymoon stage works? The euphoria of emotion. The counting of hours and minutes until they're together away from everyone. The thrill having something so wonderful. It's a joy that doesn't include or need anyone else. Why should they share this with anyone? It's exclusively theirs.

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?
Pam has to trust Jim. It's not a matter of choice. They simply have to explore this. It fits in with FNB. No regrets. I think they are trying to demonstrate to each other that they can trust each other. It's like they're trying a little too hard to let the other one know that there are no worries. But I see nothing wrong with that. It exemplifies how much they want each other toknow that have no doubts. I referenced why I think this in my answer to #1. In a big picture sense, why shouldn't she trust him? They were best friends for years and he made a bold decision to be with her. If a woman took herself out of the running for a promotion in order to be with me, I'd believe she felt strongly.

As for the relationship, it's a combination of excitement and fear. But isn't that part of a strong emotional commitment? It makes one so happy that they are afraid to lose it. Especially after their lengthy and arduous past.

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?
I can see three potential hurdles. First, they both need that constant reassurance at this point. What happens when someone slips and doesn't give that assurance? Does it create apprehension? I think they both are enjoying the moment but they haven't fully thrown themselves into what it really means just yet. I think they understand each other well enough that this is a low hurdle.

Second, how will they handle things when their relationship becomes common knowledge? There could be a problem if one wants to deny it but the other wants everyone to know. (I've personally been through this. I'm so private that I deny everything. It caused huge problems.)

Third, what happens if one moves faster than the other. The dating admission was interesting but I think Jim was relieved to know that it is now real. Their acceleration and recognition of what stage they're at is critical.

I will add that I can't see the writers breaking them up in S4. It wouldn't make much sense. They've gone out of their way to make them appear so ideal for each other. I think Jim likes the way Pam has changed because it's the Pam he always knew was possible (Flashback to Boys and Girls.) I see a few speed bumps but nothing too dramatic. The writers have to move a little away from this anyhow. There can't be much more drama between them, just specks of trouble with plenty of great moments. It's time to move onto a story with lots left to develop. (Personally, I think that story will involve Dwight on many levels.)
scrantonbranch
QUOTE (Tim_Halpert @ Sep 30 2007, 09:54 PM) *
Hey scrantonbranch!
As for the significance of Pam passing the lamp to Jim, the first thing that popped into my head was here is Jim's first official act of boyfriend-hood in front of the cameras: hold whatever the girl hands you. The next thought was that the lamp symbolizes initiative, Pam's been taking the initiative up till now, but she wants him to be making some decisions as well. Just my two cents ... what'd I win???

Great to have you back at this sb!


Hey Tim_Halpert! Woo-Hoo! You're the first winner! Check your PM, for further instructions. I have Office goodies to give away. smile.gif We seem to be on the same page with the symbolism of the lamp.

I still want to hear what everyone else has to say about the lamp, so go ahead and leave your thoughts even though this week's giveaway is taken.
Beeswax_Not_Yours_Inc.
Yay! I got a little excitement chill up my spine when I saw this topic back on the boards.

Fabulous analysis, once again sb. Even though I'm in a "Happy JAM Bubble" right now, I like the balance that you took between optimism and pessimism.

Don't tell the JAM Therapy people, but I do worry about Jim. I am anxious to see what you have to say about him.

Anyhoo, on to the first QTPs of S4! I'm a bit rusty at this, but I'll give it a go.

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?

I LOVE FNB. I keep thinking of the Pam we met in S1 and seeing her in S4 makes my heart soar. I've heard some rumblings about Pam doing a 180 and being too different, but it's all in line with the detailed character development that the writers have done with her over S2 and 3. She is absolutely glowing and basking it her FNB status and her new role as Jim's girlfriend. I don't think she's complete yet. This is still a brand new world for Pam and there will be some stops and starts before she completely transforms.

Also, Pam has never been in the driver's seat in a relationship before and I think some of the insecurities you talked about probably have to do with the fact that she's always been in the background and had someone take care of her. Now she seems to be the caretaker. It should give her some interesting challenges.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?

I think the bubble helps. This is their honeymoon period and they are definitely working on solidifying a physical relationship. It also helps them figure out who they are to each other and where they fit into each other's lives. It will be interesting to see how long the bubble lasts, when it will pop and how it will affect them.

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?

I think Pam does trust Jim. She knows what coming back to Scranton means and she puts a lot of faith into that gesture. I think the real question here is does Pam trust herself. She is almost fully FNB, but there are parts of old Pam that still linger. Also, she knows how much she hurt Jim and the guilt of that could effect their relationship. CN could end up being the "everything but the kitchen sink" conflict that lingers between them.

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?

Jim's unhappiness with his career is a big hurdle for them. Pam's glow in this episode is a result of a year's worth of internal struggle to change her life for the better and she has come so far. It was when I saw Jim at his old desk that I started to worry. Pam has changed so much, but Jim is still in the same town in the same job. I think this famous Jim quote still stands true for Jim and will be a hurdle for JAM:

Right now, this is just a job. If I advance any higher in this company then this would be my career. And uh, well, if this were my career, I'd have to throw myself in front of a train.


I think my one wish for Jim and Pam is that they do not break up. I want them to have conflict and challenges and wonderful moments, but I think from here on out, it should be from here to eternity. Jim and Pam love and respect each other and hopefully they can build a life together on those two qualities.

Cheers to Season 4!
Vinny_V.
QUOTE (scrantonbranch @ Sep 30 2007, 08:40 PM) *
Pam is ready to be with Jim and has no hang-ups. She is all smiles and gushing with love, but it all stops for a brief moment, when Jim hesitates to verify her statement. Her heart literally stops. She looks to him a little confused, even a little hurt that he hasn't jumped right in to join her. She feels the need to prod him a little further with her "Right?" This is a strong sign that there is some insecurity within the relationship. The bubble has popped for the moment, allowing for issues of insecurity, communication, and emotional honesty issues to make their way into the euphoria filled fantasy. Pam knows the relationship is great for her, but she isn't sure about how Jim is feeling. They aren't talking about it, and Pam can't be certain from just reading Jim. She is nudging Jim to communicate his feelings, which indicates communication lines are still on the mend when deeper emotional issues are at hand. There was a time when she wouldn't need to ask him, she knew by simply looking at him. The goofy grin on his face isn't enough to convince her that everything really is going great. She needs his verbal reassurance because she doesn't feel it. He is a little closed off and she can't get through that wall quite yet. Pam is noticeably relieved when he turns to her and says, "It is going really great." Her gushy smile resumes along with mushy eyes. The bubble has been restored.


This struck me an an interesting JAM role reversal. Jim didn't get his professed love returned in CN, thereby leading to the angst of Season 3, and the rebound JAREN relationship. Jim spent the entire season dealing with his hurt because Pam simply wouldn't come out and say anything about her feelings towards him. This came to a head in the infamous breakroom scene, which lead to Pam's speech in Beach Games. As I stated numerous times during that scenario, up until that point all the non-verbals in the world from Pam weren't going to make any difference to Jim.

Fast forward to this scene in Fun Run. While we don't know what was said or not said since the date in The Job, obviously the dating has been going well. That said, I can't help but wonder if stating the "L" word has been reciprocated or not, and thus Jim may in fact still be a bit insecure, and thus apprehensive about exactly where he stands with Pam.



Questions to Ponder:

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?

I think her confidence is growing by leaps and bounds, and that is definitely a good thing. However, as others have pointed out, I also believe she may be going a bit overboard with it to overcompensate for her past insecurities. Thus she needs to find a comfortable balance for her transformation to FNB to be complete.


2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM's progression as a couple?

It is what it is. Most couples have experienced it, and realize it is temporary. I trust the writers will convey that in the JAM relationship as well. Only when the honeymoon is over will we see anything that really constitutes progression as a couple. For now they have every reason to exist blissfully beneath this bubble and enjoy the gift that they have finally found their way to each other romantically, instead of examining the gift wrap and contents.


3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?

Why shouldn't she trust in Jim? He told her he loved her 2 years ago, and he broke up with Karen and came back from NY to ask her on a date. As for the relationship, again much of that depends upon what has been discussed or not since that date. The only reason Pam would be insecure about the relationship is if she became insecure with herself (ie: "Old" Pam). I doubt she has any second thoughts about Jim at this point. At least we haven't seen any signs of that.

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?

Those are the real questions, which I believe remain to be seen. Will FNB continue to overcompensate in her personality and perhaps be too assertive or domineering for Jim?


Regarding the JAM part of the question,
I hate to answer the question with questions, but aside from any past unresolved issues it would be pure speculation at this point IMO. If there are no issues remaining to be resolved from CN to now, then the hurdles will be growth centered (ie: Will they grow together or apart?). Otherwise will there be any unforseen external influences that test the relationship? Again, there's no way to tell at this point.[/color][color="#4b0082"]

Great work as usual SB! This was one monumental JAM episode to get through for sure.
grief_bone
Nice job again, SB: way to start off S4 on a high note!

Very tired tonight -- my oldest's 5th bday was this weekend --, so answers will be concise ... grunts, snorts & belches for the most part.

Questions to Ponder:

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?
Goodbye, ol' Pammy ... hello, Pam-I-Am! Kudos for getting a backbone, but don't lose the empathy & compassion.
2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?
The bubble's like an incubator: it protects & insulates the infant JAM until it can thrive on its own. But eventually, PB&J will have to shed its coccoon, or else be trapped & fossilized, like a butterfly in amber ... beautiful but tragic.
3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?
Trust but verify: she knows he came back for her (both literally & emotionally), and things are going "really great", but she still needs verbal & non-verbal reassurances from him. Not really a "trust" issue, but maybe a "belief" issue (i.e. "holy s***, this is too good to be true!").
4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?
For herself, Pam needs to stay on-track with finding her own personal bliss, and not throw her energy solely into JAM. If JAM can develop on a complementary trajectory, then great! But if Pam's personal growth begins to lag due to JAM-inertia, she'll have to make some hard decisions ... TWSS ... sorry, it's late.

QUOTE (scrantonbranch @ Sep 30 2007, 08:25 PM) *
I still want to hear what everyone else has to say about the lamp, so go ahead and leave your thoughts even though this week's giveaway is taken.

Congrats to TH on winnng the nifty gifty (how'd you score the swag anyways, SB?) ... just one semi-coherent observation on the lamp. Symbolic it came from an "estate sale"? i.e. reclaiming / salvaging something of beauty or value (i.e Jim or love) from the ashes of something that has kicked the bucket (i.e Jaren or a failed relationship)? Hope that made sense ... if not, sorry, but I'm spent. Goodnight, everyone!
BonoAndGod
hi guys!!!!! i can't log on as bono_and_god (frggin' useless MyNBC dry.gif ) but this is a close approximation. i'm going to use this account as little as possible, but i just couldn't stay away at the start of the new season...i haven't even looked at the update yet (altho i saw some hints on the end of last season's JP *raised eyebrows at SB*) and it seems that there's a LOT to talk about, so i wanted to post already, so here i am!
and now i'll go back and read the update.
Office_holic
SB i skimmed and loved this! I am currently printing this out to read while on the treadmill or spin bike while at the gym. blush.gif

What do I say when someone asks me what I'm reading? wink.gif
BonoAndGod
1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?

When answering this q, it's worth bearing in mind that there's a good chunk of time that we haven't seen. In the time it takes to finish The Job and turn on Fun Run, there's been a complete transformation that's great for shock value - Pam doesn't even look the same! But we have to remember that she HAS had time to get comfortable in this new skin. And maybe it isn't completely natural yet, which is why she's still proud of herself when she stands up to Angela - success is still self-conscious - but it takes far less effort, too smile.gif It's just the fact that she's so AWARE of the changes in herself that makes her overstep occassionally, as others have posted.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM's progression as a couple?

I never bother to use my own words when someone else has already done a perfectly fine job with theirs:

QUOTE (Vinny V. @ Oct 1 2007, 01:10 AM) *
It is what it is. Most couples have experienced it, and realize it is temporary. I trust the writers will convey that in the JAM relationship as well. Only when the honeymoon is over will we see anything that really constitutes progression as a couple. For now they have every reason to exist blissfully beneath this bubble and enjoy the gift that they have finally found their way to each other romantically, instead of examining the gift wrap and contents.


Just see Q4 for my own comments.

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?

QUOTE (Collapsing Star @ Sep 30 2007, 10:23 PM) *
Pam has to trust Jim. It's not a matter of choice. They simply have to explore this. It fits in with FNB. No regrets. I think they are trying to demonstrate to each other that they can trust each other. It's like they're trying a little too hard to let the other one know that there are no worries. But I see nothing wrong with that. It exemplifies how much they want each other toknow that have no doubts. I referenced why I think this in my answer to #1. In a big picture sense, why shouldn't she trust him? They were best friends for years and he made a bold decision to be with her. If a woman took herself out of the running for a promotion in order to be with me, I'd believe she felt strongly.

As for the relationship, it's a combination of excitement and fear. But isn't that part of a strong emotional commitment? It makes one so happy that they are afraid to lose it. Especially after their lengthy and arduous past.


In addition, the fact that they've gotten HERE is something impossible to ignore. They know what they've been through, and they know that they might have more work ahead of them, but they trust that it will be worth it. Don't they look so happy????

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?

Okay, so with all due respect to SB, we haven't seen enough yet to speculate accurately! We don't KNOW what they have-or-have-not talked about, and I guess I don't feel comfortable making predicitions unless there's more to go on.
I will say:
  • The probably do still have their past to deal with somewhat, but the bubble is a fine place from which to do that
  • FNB might take some adjusting for Jim, but he looks pretty happy so maybe not much
  • There are indications that we'll see some Jim growth this season
Anyway, I love the office. Who's with me on that one?

*edit* this was originally much longer and then someone went and shut off my comp while i was in the middle of posting! i was ROTFL--way to get welcomed back to the boards...
Lenny9987
QUOTE (Vinny V. @ Oct 1 2007, 02:10 AM) *

Fast forward to this scene in Fun Run. While we don't know what was said or not said since the date in The Job, obviously the dating has been going well. That said, I can't help but wonder if stating the "L" word has been reciprocated or not, and thus Jim may in fact still be a bit insecure, and thus apprehensive about exactly where he stands with Pam.

You have a good point here. I'll have to think about this more in class today.

QUOTE (grief bone @ Oct 1 2007, 02:49 AM) *
2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?
The bubble's like an incubator: it protects & insulates the infant JAM until it can thrive on its own. But eventually, PB&J will have to shed its coccoon, or else be trapped & fossilized, like a butterfly in amber ... beautiful but tragic.
3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?
Trust but verify: she knows he came back for her (both literally & emotionally), and things are going "really great", but she still needs verbal & non-verbal reassurances from him. Not really a "trust" issue, but maybe a "belief" issue (i.e. "holy s***, this is too good to be true!").

I love these two responses. They sum it up wonderfully (I especially like the way you answered #2).
mybestfriend
I can't answer the QTP right now because of this foolishness we call work. Anyway, SB, finding your post this morning made my day. I so enjoyed it... it was like second drink for enjoying the squeeness that was Fun Run.

I'll be back later!
Pam_Halpert_1
These are going to be short and quick seeing as it is midterm week, but I could not just leave them unanswered!

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?
My impression of FNB is that she is riding high in the sky on the wings of ideas. Pam’s strength is there, I mean look at how she handle Angela. Pam knows how to speak her mind, just look at Micheal. The question is can Pam do that with Jim as well? I think she has continued to grow and make an effort to be FNB, but I also think now is the critical time. Pam needs to not forget that FNB had nothing to do with Jim and everything to do with her. Pam needs to make sure she does not get to lost in this relationship. Pam needs to put herself first.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?
I am going to say hinder. Bubbles are good for a certain amount of time, it makes the relationship stronger and builds trust. What can happen is some one can get to dependent on another person. Jim could just take the “JAM bubble” and replace that with his broken wall, which is a bad thing. I think that also the more they are in the bubble the greater the shock will be when it pops, and they have to deal with the real world. Just look at Dwight and Angela.

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?

That is an interesting question. I think Pam trusts Jim more than he trusts her. I think that they are just sitting in the relationship, they seem to just be being and not communicating. That whole scene where Pam says they are dating and Jim’s face says a lot about the relationship and lack of communication and how Pam might be putting a little more into this relationship than Jim…. Which might I add is what she did with Roy.

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?

Pam needs to be herself and just be happy. She needs to understand Jim and keep the lines of communication open with him. There is a lot of hurdles that lie in front of JAM I am going to go with the one I think will come sooner. When they have to be pulled into reality, If it is Karen showing up at Scranton, or Ryan doing something.

I think I am going to need one more episode before I can make my true predictions, but I have a hunch where this is all going. Which seems like it could be fun, you know if you like all the awkwardness that comes with being in a relationship.
dawntinsley
Great analysis SB! I really liked your description of the bubble that Pam and Jim are in - really helps make sense of their situation. I haven't done the QTPs in forever, but here goes:

Questions to Ponder:

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?

I'm on the side that feels like she's gone a little overboard, whether it's because she hasn't figured out her boundaries or because she's overcompensating for the past. I thought she was unnecessarily mean to Michael in the breakroom. But, I thought she recognized her mistake, and that's why she was so kind to him at the end. Her snarky behavior followed by her attempt to help Michael really reminded me of Jim in E-Mail Surveillance.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?

I'm a little confused by the timeline of Fun Run, so that affects my answer to this question. If they've been dating for two months, I don't think the bubble is doing either. However, if they've been dating for four months, the bubble would definitely be hurting them. At some point, they have to get real about each other, about how their relationship is affected by and affects those around them, and how they have to deal with the world as a couple. The bubble helps them get comfortable with each other and trust each other again, but there's a certain falsity about it that has to fall away eventually.

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?

I don't think she has any reason not to trust him - he came back from New York for her, he broke up with his girlfriend for her and the girlfriend is gone.

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?

Pam needs to continue to grow as the graceful FNB. She and Jim have to learn how to handle their relationship in the real world. I think they have to have some kind of discussion about how and why they hurt each other in the past, as well as the reasons why those things won't happen again. They seem to be doing a good job with the non-verbal communication, but I'm hoping they are really backing that up with verbal communication as well. They can't get fooled into thinking that this honeymoon phase is for real or forever.
tx_moody
QUOTE (scrantonbranch @ Sep 30 2007, 08:40 PM) *
Her smile is dripping with love and a sense of nostalgia.

This was a nostalgic look purely from the documentary crew. The last time we saw this camera angle was in Boys and Girls after they had their fight that convinced Jim he was never going to win her and that she was fine with her choices. The crew, knowing what they just found out, was juxtaposing her look now, to the look back then. Pam wasn’t thinking of the past. She could have been thinking of something funny he’d said earlier, or something sweet he said or did. Or she just could have been happy that everything was going so well.

QUOTE (scrantonbranch @ Sep 30 2007, 08:40 PM) *
This is a strong sign that there is some insecurity within the relationship. The bubble has popped for the moment, allowing for issues of insecurity, communication, and emotional honesty issues to make their way into the euphoria filled fantasy. Pam knows the relationship is great for her, but she isn’t sure about how Jim is feeling. They aren’t talking about it, and Pam can’t be certain from just reading Jim. She is nudging Jim to communicate his feelings, which indicates communication lines are still on the mend when deeper emotional issues are at hand. There was a time when she wouldn’t need to ask him, she knew by simply looking at him. The goofy grin on his face isn’t enough to convince her that everything really is going great. She needs his verbal reassurance because she doesn’t feel it. He is a little closed off and she can’t get through that wall quite yet. Pam is noticeably relieved when he turns to her and says, “It is going really great.” Her gushy smile resumes along with mushy eyes. The bubble has been restored.

I remember while watching this thinking when there was a pause, “C’mon Jim! Say something!” I think it’s just better when two people are talking about their relationship for BOTH people to say something. She just wanted some back up and to hear it. I’m constantly asking for my hubby of 10 years for re-assurance of his love. And believe me, there’s no bubble! biggrin.gif I just like to hear it. Period. Words of affirmation being my love language and all that. So, I don’t think that means that it’s the first time they’ve discussed it. Seeing as after 11 years of being together, and bearing him three children, I still need the occasional boost. I think more telling is the way that he responded. Jim said it to Pam! In a heartfelt way. He didn’t jokingly play it off, or state it to the camera. He re-assured her sincerely. To me, that means more than the fact that she asked.
QUOTE (scrantonbranch @ Sep 30 2007, 08:40 PM) *
To her surprise, Jim reaches for her hand. She looks down at his fingers interlocking with hers and smiles. She looks up at him, likely feeling the needed reassurance of his feelings for her. She is thrilled he initiated, which indicates this isn't something he does all the time. The bubble continues to surround them as they happily hold onto one another.

He doesn’t initiate it often, or he doesn’t EVER initiate it at the office? I tend to think it’s the latter.

Questions to Ponder:

1. What is your impression of FNB?

She pleasantly surprised me! I thought her interaction with Michael and Angela was especially great. She completely stood up for herself. Good for you Pammie! Oops, sorry, Pam.
Is the transition complete?
Is the transition of any person ever complete? I hope not.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?
I guess I’m mostly disagreeing with the assertion that there is a bubble and that will spell trouble for them in the future. Where did the idea of the bubble come from? Why are we assuming that they didn’t talk about things at the beginning of the summer? And why are we assuming that what Pam said at Beach Games and The Negotiation enough for the both of them? Part of being in a relationship is trusting each other and believing what each other says. If Pam apologized (and she did) Jim should take it at face value and move on. I think over-analyzing feelings can absolutely destroy a relationship, because it focuses way too much on small hardships and not enough on the enjoyment of being together.

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?
I don’t know why she wouldn’t. Am I too much of an optimist? I’m not getting the angst here. *shrugs*

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?Coming out of the relationship closet might be interesting.


As much as I’ve obviously disagreed with you, SB, you still amaze me! Thanks so much for continuing this thread this season. And thank your hubby for us, too! wink.gif
tinydundie
Hi, everyone! I'm new to the thread, and I have to say, wow. This is great!

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?

I think when you're in a relationship that starts young and lasts so long that it can stunt your growth as an individual. Roy certainly never encouraged her. FNB is in some ways just Pam growing into herself as a woman.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?

QUOTE (grief bone @ Oct 1 2007, 01:49 AM) *
The bubble's like an incubator: it protects & insulates the infant JAM until it can thrive on its own. But eventually, PB&J will have to shed its coccoon, or else be trapped & fossilized, like a butterfly in amber ... beautiful but tragic.


Exactly. I think Pam is less afraid of the bubble popping than Jim. Her admission that they're dating was the first step to take it from "bubble" to reality.

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?

She trusts Jim completely. I think she trusts the relationship, too. Right now it's young and boundless. She hasn't found any limits yet.

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?

That really depends on what they've gone through so far. Have they addressed their past? The pain that they've caused each other will hold them back unless they deal with it. Once they get through that, I think they could tackle almost anything together.
Whorish_Orange_Streamers
SB, what an absolute pleasure to read your analysis of the episode (and you got this up here so fast - double bonus!). The QTPs are tough for me this week, because I didn't feel any "snags" as I read your thoughts... I pretty much agree with your take on the current status (do you ever get tired of hearing this?).

Still, here goes (with the idea of brief answers - and I haven't read anyone else's, so please pardon any unintentional redundancies):


Questions to Ponder:

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?

No, I don't think it's complete yet. Pam is still learning about balancing her newfound confidence with her sweet nature - and let's face it, with every new situation that a person encounters, you always have to adjust and grow, through every stage of your life. Will she be the same person in five years? Unlikely, but the core of her confidence and sweetness will hopefully always be the foundation of whoever she is.


2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?

There isn't anything wrong with the bubble at this point - after all the far-too-public speculation that tornadoed around Jim-Pam-Karen last year, stepping back from the public scrutiny to rediscover each other sounds like the very essence of sanity. I especially understand Jim's hesitancy - he could be perceived as kind of a scoundrel (or even a fool) for dumping Karen and attaching himself immediately to Pam, just because she beckoned him. And Pam wouldn't really want to look like the person who torpedoed another relationship just to get what she wanted when she finally (outwardly) acknowledged that she wanted it.


3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?
Now that she recognizes Jim again, I think she trusts him as much as she's ever trusted anyone. And it seems like she's feeling the "if it seems too good to be true, it probably is" doubt that often accompanies any wish that finally comes true. If she weren't slightly worried that the other shoe might fall and crush what she's wanted for so long, she wouldn't be human (and can you imagine how smug and annoying it would be if she were completely confident. Even as FNB, that just isn't Pam).


4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?
The huge hurdles are gone, now they finally get to deal with all the normal relationship... well, "hurdles" seems like a strong word. Seems like they deserve to deal with relationship "hiccups." Meeting the family. Dealing with office gossip. Acknowledging each new defined relationship benchmark. The "L" word.

Although, I do have a slight concern that Jim may stumble as he discovers Pam the person, rather than "Pam on a pedestal" - he has adored her for so long that discovering her very human foibles (and please don't say that a love of celebrity porn is one of these... I'm still calling that slip a problem of "rented fingers" with a pop-up rather than an alarming personal slide) may cause him to wonder if he made a mistake in destroying his upward mobility to come back to his tedious old life just to be with her...

Geez, I hope not blink.gif !
Miss_Teapot
And.... she's BACK!! SB, fab analysis.... as always! What a good feeling to have a season full of shows on the horizon to pluck apart, not to mention what I know will be a generous helping of JAM yumminess...

Here we go again!

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?
Pam is growing more and more into FNB AND is really beginning to allow this "alter ego" to become a permanent part of her character and personality. Pam realizes that the old Pam was stuck and unhappy, and wasn't getting what she wanted, while FNB gets the guy, stands up for herself and isn't afraid to chase dreams.... Pam has experienced far more success and happiness as FNB, so she will cling to this newer, stronger persona. I don't think the transition is complete... most of the reason for the emergence of FNB is Jim, and while they're finally free to be happy together, and to be honest with their feelings for each other, so much of their life as a couple as well as their future still has to be determined. I'm guessing there will be some tricky moments with Jim that will tempt her to lose confidence and revert to old Pam... but at the end of it all, Pam will continue on this journey (with Jim!) to see that FNB is fully realized.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?
I think that it really helps them for now. I think they need this time to themselves to get to know each other again after all they've been through. They NEED to just enjoy this time together as a couple as they settle into this new phase of their connection... and they need to do this without public scrutiny, attention or gossip. If they try to stay in the bubble for TOO long though, I think they risk not maturing as a couple... Part of being a couple and going thru life together means weathering the outside world together, encouraging each other, supporting each other as life happens.... and it is very hard for these things to happen entirely in secret.

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?
I think Pam trusts Jim implicitly. For years he demonstrated a kindness and support of her through their friendship. He's a trustworthy guy, and she's seen and knows that. She is beginning to trust the relationship, but because of how new it all is, she can't be completely sure where Jim is emotionally, in all of it. SB's analysis reveals that Pam has glimpsed moments where Jim is hesitant in stepping up to the boyfriend plate, but at the end of the day, she loves being with him, she knows he loves being with her, and it's probably enough for now. Also, I think Pam completely trusts Jim as a friend, but she's learning how to trust him as a boyfriend.... this is all new territory for her, after all!

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?
Ooooh, sounds funny, but I'm SO excited to see these hurdles.... and to watch JAM occasionally stumble, doubt, or fall a bit, but to clear them in the end.... I don't think they will be able to keep their relationship a secret for too long, especially considering their coworkers have witnessed so much of their history as friends, including possibly their most notable public moment; Pam's fireside confession to Jim during Beach Games. THey will have to handle being a public couple, which includes the inevitable (and unenviable) and inappropriate comments from Michael (and probably Dwight), next steps in their relationship (L-word, should they move in together, family stuff), and also dealing with their somewhat painful past.

Alrighty, that's all for now! I've enjoyed reading all the analyses, everyone.... keep up the good work!

Three days till "Dunder Mifflin Infinity"!
Lenny9987
Welcome to the PD and JP tiny dundie. I was going to quote my favorite parts of your post but I loved the whole thing. Great job. I especially agree about Pam's relationship with Roy stunting her and her rapid transition into FNB being, well, making up for lost time (about ten years' worth).

Now as regards the bubble and their confession to the camera crew, I think part of why Pam did spill the beans (and why Jim isn't upset about it) is because the camera crew have been supporters of their relationship. It's clear that in a lot of the talking heads the camera crew would have asked questions with regards to their relationship as friends and as a couple, from the show's beginning. They probably see the camera crew as something that won't disturb the bubble (they haven't interfered in Dwight and Angela's relationship except with helping Pam to confirm that it existed in Email Surveillance). If anything the camera crew and the talking heads give them a place where they can figure themselves and the relationship out (look at what it did for Jim and Karen's problem in Back From Vacation and Ben Franklin).

Just a thought.
smellsliketide
What a refreshing new way for all of us approach the Dichotomy questions! Very solid take, SB.

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?
At this point, Pam seems to be a evolved, strengthened version of her old self. She’s still her --- the initial kick-in-the-gut reaction to the IT guy calling her on clicking on the celeb sex tape was “old Pam” --- but she’s clearly gained confidence and strength. Seconds after her mild panic about the sex tape, she’s turned it into cute joke fodder with Jim. That’s FNB all the way. Plus her interactions with Angela, Michael and others later that day cement her new stronger persona. Transition complete? Depends how far you want that to go .... I’d be pretty content with where she is now, some old loveable Pam with a lot of new loveable Pam. Just when is such a transition "complete?" No one needs Ilsa, She-Wolf of the SS.

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?
I see it as about 90 percent positive. Old Pam wouldn’t have salavaged this relationship at all, and likely wouldn’t have the strength to guide Jim back to his more-or-less old self, and keep him vested in this new thang while he’s still insecure. The 10 percent negative is that Jim may mourn the “old” Pam a little, and may be a little intimidated. He’ll come around soon enough.

3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?
Why wouldn’t Pam trust Jim? She (probably) knows he came back in large measure for her, and has loved her "for long tim." Pam’s biggest concern now, I think, is whether she can ever conquer Jim’s insecurities and gain HIS trust. Related to that, if they haven’t reconciled their past and confronted it, their mistakes and their miscommunications, they MUST do that at some point soon.

4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?
First, continuing to prove to Jim that she reciprocates his feelings. She’s done an excellent job so far, as we’ve been shown. Next, handling their relationship after it becomes general knowledge in the office, which I believe it soon will (why it isn't already assumed beyond Kevin and Oscar, I don't really understand). And dealing with past loves (Karen and Roy), when/if they resurface, will likely prove troublesome, particularly for Jim if Roy comes around.
smellsliketide
Hmmmm, in my previous post, I failed to read one of the questions properly. Here is a more relevant answer:

2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?
The "bubble" is a good thing for a while ... it lets things bond a bit, lets the glue dry a little. I see it as sort of like the stakes and rubber bands that hold up sapling trees; important at first to give the sapling time to gain strength and hardness (twss) but restrictive and potentially crippling past a certain, early stage. So, helps right away, but will hurt if not popped, hopefully relatively gently, later on.
whichonespam
So much to look forward to after that amazing first episode of seaon four.

scrantonbranch, you are amazing. I read your summative analysis and was blown away by your thorough and detailed explanations as well as your dedication. I can't thank you enough for keeping Pam and Jim alive throughout the off season and for provoking such wonderful discussion.
1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?

“I am what I am”

For me, this statement more than anything else in S3, sums up the true essence and beauty of FNB. Pam’s commitment to be honest with herself and fearless with her choices is the hallmark of her personal evolution. From everything I saw in Fun Run I would say that Pam’s transition to being the person who is happy with who she is, is complete. Her choices brought Jim back into her life as more than a friend which has magnified her happiness to the level of absolute joy. FNB is the cake, sweet and delicious, a pleasure to savour on it’s own. Jim is the icing on the cake - that final touch which turns something good into something great.

This does not mean that there will not be further changes and transitions for her as situations and events transpire on her journey but most of the time she will be making her future decisions from a more authentic and courageous place.
Long live FNB! 2. Does the bubble help or hinder JAM’s progression as a couple?

Jim and Pam, whether they were friends, best friends, colleagues or more than that, have always existed in a bit of a bubble. The chemistry and emotion that bind them are independent of their relationships with the larger Office family and of their other personal relationships.

Unlike a cocoon (which is also an isolated place to grow), I like to think of a bubble as being a transparent, thin membrane. It provides a thin protection from outside influences but does not blind you to the world around you. The walls of a bubble also have properties that allow multiple bubbles to attach themselves to each other so it doesn’t have to be an isolated place. I always associate bubbles with bright, shiny, fun times – well, except for dish soap bubbles.

On the flipside, the bubble can distort or colour your image of the outside world. As long as Jim and Pam remain aware of and open to the world outside of their bubble they will flourish together and as individuals.

I think every true loving relationship has a bubble, someplace that provides a special type of security and comfort we need to be our true selves. Jim and Pam have found that special place with each other.


S4 will be about how Pam and Jim deal with life and their co-workers together. We've seen them both individually but I think we'll see their perspective as a couple for much of S4. I cannot wait for the season to unfold.


3. Does Pam trust Jim? How about the relationship?

I think Pam’s trust of Jim and their relationship is absolute at this time. More important than that in my opinion is she trusts herself. I have mentioned this in previous PD and JP posts and I’ll repeat myself here, trust is fundamental to good communication and good communication is vital for a relationship to succeed.

The rocky path (mainly sedimentary rocks of course) Jim and Pam have traveled to this point made each of them aware of the others weaknesses and insecurities. Whether they have discussed past events or misunderstandings at this point is not clear but for both of them to take the leap into this relationship knowing the hurt and pain they each endured in the past signifies to me that there is trust between them.


4. What hurdles lie before Pam? JAM?

I am so positive about Pam and JAM right now that I am having a great deal of difficulty coming up with specific answers to this question. I’m not saying that they won’t have challenges but there are too many to choose from and they seem unimportant right now.

In the near future Pam and PB&J will have to deal with the reactions to their relationship when it goes public. They handled the outing by the camera crew with honesty – they tried to maintain their privacy but when it became clear that was not going to be an option Pam couldn’t hold back any longer.

I look forward to reading the rest of your answers to this question.
scrantonbranch
I swore I was just going to read today, but I can't resist a good argument! I've been reading anwers all morning and as usual I am totally impressed. I love how we all have different ideas on what happened in Fun Run. The whole gang isn't back yet, but it's good to see some familiar screen names! Thank you so much for reading and posting! I appreciate all the compliments and the arguments. smile.gif

QUOTE (poorman @ Oct 1 2007, 10:45 AM) *
This was a nostalgic look purely from the documentary crew. The last time we saw this camera angle was in Boys and Girls after they had their fight that convinced Jim he was never going to win her and that she was fine with her choices. The crew, knowing what they just found out, was juxtaposing her look now, to the look back then. Pam wasn’t thinking of the past. She could have been thinking of something funny he’d said earlier, or something sweet he said or did. Or she just could have been happy that everything was going so well.


I respect your opinion, but I couldn't disagree more. I thought it was a great touch by the camera crew to reminisce with a camera angle that is totally Season 2, but Pam's face is something they can't manipulate. That smile was for Jim, but her expression is unmistakable. Everything is right with the world, because Jim is where he is supposed be. Back in his desk right in front of her. I don't disagree that she was thinking happy thoughts about the relationship she has with him. Her face had a very dreamy quality to it and that's what makes me think she has an "idea" of Old Jim floating through her mind. He seems to have come back and she's thrilled to have him in her life again. That was a look of someone who is grateful and conscsious of not taking him for granted.

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I remember while watching this thinking when there was a pause, “C’mon Jim! Say something!” I think it’s just better when two people are talking about their relationship for BOTH people to say something. She just wanted some back up and to hear it. I’m constantly asking for my hubby of 10 years for re-assurance of his love. And believe me, there’s no bubble! biggrin.gif I just like to hear it. Period.


In this instance this is the first time the relationship had been defined by either one of them. Pam was looking for reassurance that she had defined the relationship correctly. I really don't they've talked about it up to that point, so she wasn't sure where he stood. The bubble prevented that conversation from occurring in order to simply enjoy each other in their happy little world. I distinctly remember the bubble stage when I met my husband. Both of us were drunk in love and didn't really talk seriously about anything. It's a great place to be with someone, but eventually the bubble must burst and you find out just where the relationship is going through honest communication that isn't veiled by giddiness. I love watching JAM in the bubble, but I'm also waiting for the meaningful communication to begin. Right now they're figuring out how to be together and what the other person needs. The bubble is necessary for this to happen.
As for contstant reassurance, it's different for every couple. I'd probably smack my husband if he constantly reassured me of our relationship. I'd rather he just show me! But that's us! wink.gif

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I think more telling is the way that he responded. Jim said it to Pam! In a heartfelt way. He didn’t jokingly play it off, or state it to the camera. He re-assured her sincerely. To me, that means more than the fact that she asked.


He did, but he needed a little nudge. I applaud Pam for having the guts to prod him!

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He doesn’t initiate it often, or he doesn’t EVER initiate it at the office? I tend to think it’s the latter.


I'm not sure yet. All I know is Pam seemed surprised by his gesture to hold her hand. I won't have a concrete stance on this until I'm done poking around in Jim's brain.

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As much as I’ve obviously disagreed with you, SB, you still amaze me! Thanks so much for continuing this thread this season. And thank your hubby for us, too! wink.gif


It wouldn't be any fun if everyone always agreed with me! Thanks for the great debate and for keeping me on my toes. I'll try to respond to your QTP answers later. Thanks for reading!
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I'm back to answer, I couldn't wait. I may seem like I'm being hard on Pam but that's not my intention. All is so lovely right now that pointing anything out seems overly critical but i'm doing this for analysis sake and not to be critical. So, here we go.

Questions to Ponder:

1. What is your impression of FNB? Is the transition complete?


I say in business and in life in general that pendulums tend to swing back and forth to extremes before settling into 'equilibrium'. I think right now, Pam has swung to the extreme and as far as she will go towards assertiveness. In my view, she will drift back towards center when her transition is complete. I'm not really saying Pam is over the top on assertiveness right now, I just think that there will be a natural drift back towards a more balanced FNB when all is said and done. As an example, I love Pam but I thought she was a tad insensitive to Angela's need to get home to her beloved kitty. I feel our Pam is at her best and will truly FNB when she can both stand up for herself while also showing love and compassion to those around her.

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