To tell you guys the truth I really have no clue who Sami is going to end up with even though I am a Lumi fan. Because if she is going to be with EJ to end the vendetta then maybe the writers may make her realize how much she loves EJ or something like that but then she gives birth to Lucas' twins and she still does love him. Its sooooo confusing. Lol. Please no bashing just pick who you think Sami will be with at the end.

I believe that Sami will be with EJ in the end however it's hard to tell since the writers keep going back & forth. I think there is more of a storyline with EJ & Sami...raising the twins, keeping them safe from Stefano, Bradys & Dimeras struggling to get along or deal with Sami chosing to be with EJ (her emgerging feelings). While I respect the history of Lumi, I think it's played out. It's time to try something different, Ejami is the way to go, JMO.

ITA- I think Lumi has played out to the fullest it can be and moreso with Hogan. JER always used Lumi as a fall back couple. I think they have a great friendship dynamic and even better dynamic when they are fighting.

Personally, the exciting factor is missing with Lumi but comes up in spades for Ejami. I would love to see them really delve into a relationship with Ejami. So much potential there.

Ita as well. I think that Lumi is a couple that once was hot, but now it is time to move them in different directions. I loved Lumi, but I think that Ejami have much more potential as a supercouple. They remind me of John and Marlena in many ways. I just think that Lumi is like the Roman/Marlena relationship....they will always love each other and be in each others lives because of their children but they do better apart than together. That is just my opinion though.

I was at first a LUMI fan, but if EJ and Sami get married, I can definitely see her falling in love with him. Eventually his charm and sweetness is gonna get to her. Of course in the beginning she is going to make it hard on him, but I can see him constantly supporting her and only trying to make her happy, I think that in the end will win her over.

I think LUMI has run it's course and Sami belongs with EJ. They will be the next Salem supercouple.

I wish there was a I'm not sure pick. I can see her with EJ , but am just not sure. Lucas has changed so much these past few mts.

EJ

I chose EJ. But honestly I don't think there will be an end. I think this triangle will last for a long long time. There is so much controversy with this triangle and I think tptb are eating it up.

She will be with Lucas ~ no doubt about that. She loves him and is only planning on marrying Elvis to help her family. She will never lover her rapist. Lumi are soul mates!

I know what you mean.
Lucas has changed for the better these last few months.
Is it permanent, or not?

I got to thinking about it.
I decided I didn't care if he became the perfect model companion.
I don't want him with Sami.

Ej is flawed in just the right ways to be a great match for Sami.
That's my pick.

ITA with you AZ. She is only marrying ej to help her family. She loves Lucas and only Lucas. Lumi is the next supercouple.

EJ Wells Dimera

I think we are all in for a wild rollercoaster ride. She will be with EJ then run back to Lucas but then I think that door will eventually close and she will ultimately be with the man who knows what makes her tick and loves her for it - EJ.

I voted for Lucas, even though I am a Fan of EJ/Sami, well EJ anyway Sami has gotten very annoying lately. I never liked Lucas, although lately I am liking him better. I like how he is calling Sami on her feelings for EJ, he also seems to be doing it with less screaming and more feeling. Just please no more Lucas/Sami sex scenes, they really gross me out.

i choose ej, sami right now is going with ej to end the vendetta but i do believe that she loves ej and has loving feelings toward him.
sami and ej are true soulmates and are destined for each other.
they complete each other and ej loves sami, her faults and all and doesn't try to make her be something she isn't.

Man, I haven't been here in a while....and yet - nothing changes.....

it got really bright on this board Too bad it hasn't affected attitudes as well....oh well. I voted for EJ. They are kindred spirits and I think it'll be EJami in the end.

Lucas can be good in another relationship, which I'd like to see for him, not in one where he doesn't trust the woman he's with and where she lies to him constantly.....

yeah

I voted EJ....I PRAY they let this awesome relationship play out. Lumi is past and they bled every bit of anything positive they could get out of it until it was reduced to a snivel-shout-slurpfest of the worst kind. Please let her end up with EJ.

I would have liked a both feature on this... Sami may end up with Ej and then go back to Lucas... that seems to be the pattern...

As to the missing votes and etc. First off... this is a wholly unscientific poll.... there is nothing, not even bragging rights to be won from it... How many of these have we done? Has anyone's mind changed as a result? Ok.... and, secondly, we don't know that the missing votes are going to Lucas or if they are just disappearing....

Just thought I would head off the conspiracy theories at the pass.....

I voted for EJ. I agree with you Beach..... Sami may be marrying EJ now to end the vendetta but she does have feelings for him and they will come out.
Lucas says it best on tomorrows show... "are you marrying EJ to end the vendetta or are you using the vendetta as an excuse to marry EJ. "
I think its the latter.

I voted EJ...at least, that is who I'm hoping Sami will end up with.

Loretta

EJ

I mean ~ really ~ why even have a poll if you're going to manipulate the numbers?

Who cannot see the magic of EJ and Sami? He continually professes his unconditional love for her and "puts his money where his mouth is". Lucas on the other hand fluctuates between being sweet and understanding to raging at her and withdrawing his love and support. I would have a nervous breakdown being married to him.

Well its 41-Ej to 25-Lucas. If it changes significally in Lucas' favor we will know for sure something odd is going on with the poll.

I almost laughed my @ss off when Lucas said he could never hurt Sami like she's hurting him. (that may be Monday's show, not sure.

I'm betting on EJ, mainly because there is way too much storyline potential to pass up. While I do agree that Sami is doing this to end the vendetta, I also know she is fighting her feelings for EJ as well, whatever they may be. I know Sami will always love Lucas, just like Marlena will always love Roman, but until Hogan came onboard Lucas and Sami were never soulmates, not for their entire thirteen year history, so I am less inclined to believe her always loving Lucas has anything to do with supercouple passion and everything to do with how much they have been through as friends and enemies, yet still managed to get where they are today.

I think what people might fail to realize here is that even if Sami didn't have feelings for EJ that once she married him there would never be the possibility of going back to Lucas unless EJ died. That man would never divorce Sami. I remember the old days when the villains of the show could string along their spouses who wanted a divorce for years. It seemed to never end. I imagine that will happen to Sami if she marries EJ.

At any rate, I am more interested right now on how the writers are going to take this storyline with the twins more than I am the rest. I think the best option will be the split parentage, and it will be that which keeps the storyline the most interesting for me. It would really be cool if the hospital mixed up which twin was biologically Ej's and which one was biologically Lucas's too. Can you imagine years later for an EJ baby to realize he/she was really Lucas's and vice versus?

I am also interested in seeing what direction they take Will in all of this. Remember how easily seduced Will was by EJ on more than one ocassion. EJ knew what buttons to push; what electronics to buy, what questions to ask, etc., and if Will is anything like his mother, how much fun could the writers have turning Will into a teenage hoodlum in the old vein of Bo and Steve? Imagine if he was under EJ's tutledge too.You see it is this sort of thing that goes a long way in making and EJ/SAMI pairing more probable storyline wise. Real supercouples never run out their course. Unevenly matched couples, on the other hand, do........Bo and Billie were a perfect example of this. I am not saying they did not have their moments in the beginning (while Bo was trying to heal after Carly left him), but in the end they never had the punch. Like Lucas, at the time Billie was too weak a character imo for it to work with Bo in the longterm.

Well, Sami can't say that she wasn't warned ahead of time about the conditions set for this wedding to EJ. Stefano was quite explicit that once she agreed to the marriage and actually married EJ, then it would be for life.

Stefano said that if she agreed, then she wouldn't be able to change her mind at the last minute or get a divorce and anullment. Sami agreed to the conditions and it was obvious that she wasn't "hysterical or in a muddled frame of mine" but she was as ruthlessly practical as Stefano and stated her own conditions for Stefano.

Sami left herself no wiggle room. She made a pact with the devil(Stefano) and DIDN'T use a long spoon, but drank out of the same cup.
Sami will officially become a DiMera and I think that this will add even more spice and zing once Sami gets a taste of the money and power that will come with her new position.

Giving in to her passionate love for EJ will just be the special icing on her new cake! Note to Kate and other Sami enemies, I'd order the heavy duty armor and bullet proof vests right now

how many friggin poll on ej/sami/lucas for the past year my god i've been gone for months and it's still going on anywas lumi are soulmates and nothing is ever gonna stop that

yeah i LAUGHED so hard when he said that-

i think sami should be with ej at the end

Oh my yes.....they can expect the fun guns now!!!

I think you hit the nail on the head.

TPTB are eating this up. The story between Sami, Lucas and EJ was mostly one sided for the last half a year, but now, finally it's coming around to being a real triangle. Sami struggling with emotions on both sides, and I'm not sure anymore what is going on. Monday's show (the lumi scenes) had me interested again in what is going to happen. I want to know what Sami is going to do and how this is going to progress.

As for your spoiler, the thing is, many Lumi fans feel (as I do) although lately I'm more on the fence than anything else, that the things Sami did to Lucas were worse than what he did to her.

I will always believe that. She's nasty and she deserved what he did to her. I do feel Sami is stuck in this situation, between her family and Lucas, and has no real choice. So I'm not going to say anything about her decision at this point, although I do think that I like her less because she goes ahead with the wedding.

I understand that most Ejami fans will not understand, or see Lucas as the victim, but to me he always has been. Who knows. I guess different strokes for different folks and all tha crap.

I think that Sami and Lucas have gone thru so much to be married that they should have let them be happy for a little while before they started problems in there relationship.

The writers make it seem as if the fact that she was raped at gunpoint by EJ is no big deal. There is no way that she should have gotten over it that quickly. They make it appear that rape victoms should just get over it. EJ was not punished in any way for the rape. Sami was raped before when she was a teenager, I don't beleive that she just got over it. If they wanted to put EJ and Sami together they should have never had him rape her. I cannot believe that she could fall in love with her rapist.

I think that before Sami and Lucas get a divorse that Colleen should come back. There was nothing showed that proved that she really died.

If they go thru with the marriage I don't see why everyone would assume that Sami and EJ would get the kids. I think that Lucas would definately fight for his kids, just because you are married to someone does not mean that they have the right to keep the father from his children. EJ and Stefano only wanted them raised as Dimeras when they thought that EJ was the father.

I think this is a great post concerned in CA. If they wanted Sami with ej, the writers should have never have him rape her in the first place.

Ditto, there's no way Sami is meant to be with anyone but Lucas. That's just the way it is. When Lucas becomes a true Horton, the way he's meant to be then they will rule the way Bo and Hope has. It will be a Brady/Horton reunion like it's supposed to be and Lucas can have no part of Roberts anymore.

Let Kate marry Stephano and cause trouble for Salem. They are made for each other.

you're assuming there will be an end.

EJ all the way! I'm so excited to see all the drama that's going to come out of an EJAMI wedding and Sami struggling with her feelings for Lucas and her feelings for EJ. I'm still hoping at least one of the twins is EJ's.

im still p*ssed that the twins arent ejs. i was a lumi fan but they dont do it for me anymore. ejami is the way to go. theyre soul mates, and those twins should have been theirs. sami belongs with ej. he gets her and has never asked her to change unlike a certain 'man' who has hurt sami more times than theyve been together.

Nope. One's "soul mate" doesn't RAPE her.

can we not bring the rape into every discussion. the OP asked for no bashing and this will just start a fight and debate in this thread, because some of us don't believe it was " r ".

to the topic i say ej, he accepts her no matter what and doesn't try to change her and such. but with the way hogan is writing he will probally keep it a triangle till days goes off the air just to screw all the fanbases around.

No, we can't. I'm not bashing. I am just stating a fact.

I keep asking who out there is in love with her/his rapist, but no one
ever answers.

Are you?

since i don't believe it was rape then yes sami is in love with ej because he didn't rape her.
and to bring rape into a thread will just bring debate and fighting that is what the ejami/lumi debate thread is for if people want to argue about rape or not rape.
you want everyone to answer if they are in love with their rapist and yet there are those of us who don't believe it was rape so we believe sami and ej are in love and it wasn't rape.

Oh beachlady, rape is all they have. When the story is told in its entirety, the rape issue will go up in smoke and they will have nothing. It's always easier to throw out something completely inflammatory (however erroneous) than to try to think through the actual rationale for one's feelings. That's how I feel about Santos and Colleen also....if someone's only reason for hating Santo (the only articulated one) is because he was married....what happens to their argument once the story comes out that he wasn't "married"? I dunno...I'm just glad for depth and clarity.

Again you are assuming it was rape. Not everyone feels that way so the question is irrelevant.



And again CG, you are the voice of reason. thank you.


Beach, CG is right, there is no point in arguing the point, the truth will come out soon enough.

and rape doesn't have to be brought up in every topic and thread, that is fine that you believe it was rape and that is why you feel ej and sami should not be together.
but i don't believe it was rape and we can go around and around and continue to beat this dead horse of a topic and it will go nowhere because we each believe something different from the other.
and since i dont' believe it was rape then sami can be in love with ej becaue i don't believe or will ever believe it was nothing more than an indecent proposal on that night in question.
and that is my honest opinion and answer to your question.

OK. Then it was Sami's "choice". That's extortion.

Uh, "ex-tor-shun": a criminal offense which occurs when a person obtains money, behaviour, or other goods and/or services from another by wrongfully threatening or inflicting harm to the other or his/her loved ones/career/happiness/etc.

A CRIME, whether "she wanted it" or not.


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Yep, can't wait to see that one hit the courts. EX TOR SHUN.... having sex with a super hot guy, so he'll help your boyfriend get out from under a beam........ can you say: GOODFRIGGINLUCK ??

This is why so many women are afraid to press charges against
their rapists. Fear of being accused of "wanting it".

Hey, Ted Bundy was super hot. Maybe you can start a correspondence with him and marry him so you can have hot conjugal visits. Oh, and Jack the
Ripper had a British accent. Too bad, he's dead.

Perhaps Charles Manson, with his magnetic eyes is more your cup of tea?
Richard Speck? Oh, no, not him. He wasn't "hot".

I think James Scott is gorgeous. I think Elvo is slime.


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real life does not = soap opera! I can discern between the two. Thanks.

Actually...if a rape kit is done they can tell whether it was consensual or not. If it was consensual there is normal trauma at the front of the you know...if it wasn't there's trauma at the back. Just adding my science geekery. Proceed!