QUOTE (yooperbrat03 @ Aug 5 2008, 09:21 AM)

Here's my OPINION of your "problems''....
1. She doesn't look that old, so big deal with the age factor...
2. Women have been working and raising children at the same time for years. If anyone can balance family and a career Melissa can, so quit nit picking...
3. People lose weight all the time, case in point all the weight Melissa CHOSE to lose during the show, see it as a positive for those who are over-weight and can use it as an inspiration.
As Melissa's song states, she's "Ready to Stand"....

Brat
Here's my opinion of your opinions:
1. The labels don't want to even look at new artists who aren't extremely young and attractive. Both Waylon and Tracy Lawrence told me this over ten years ago and it's worse now. Taylor is the new norm, not the exception.
2. Some careers are easier to balance with child-raising than others. Being a performer is one of the very worst and the first few years are brutal. The major female stars of today who are mothers spent years establishing their careers, *then* had the kids. Reba had her first single in 76 and her only kid in 89. Wy had her two more than ten years after she and her mom broke in the 80s. The Chicks had sold over ten million records before they started having theirs. The industry is much tougher than it used to be and a newcomer has to put career first for a long time until they're established. Name me *one* new female artist signed to a Nashville label in the last five years who has a large family.
3. While losing weight many be "inspirational," the sad truth is most who do gain it back. And please don't trot up Trisha and Wy as examples of women who are accepted despite their weight since they were much thinner when they were signed 18-25 years ago. And fans have become much more visually-oriented since then - and less forgiving of artists who aren't model-prefect.
I think Melissa needs a good manager, great PR and a back-up plan because I don't expect WB and country radio to support her. She needs to maximize her 15 minutes any way she can and not depend on the label to make her a star. Most of all, she needs to look at the hard cold facts of the industry and not listen to enablers.