That little girl loves her father he is the only person who truly loves her along with Nicole i am sorry i know your think i am been hard on Sami but she was going deny her own father i think EJ will remember this when the truth comes out. As a Ejami i would love them to be together i am still hoping they will reunite and realise how much they love each other. But by some chance that doesn't happen the writers better not have EJ lose his daugther because he had nothing to do with Sami and Nicole lies he is the victim here as i am concerned. In the end i don't think it will come to that i don't Sami will try take Sydney of him she is going find out sooner or later EJ knew nothing about what Nicole did the truth always comes out. She might threaten to take her of him at first if she wrong assumes he was in on what Nicole did but it will like when EJ threaten to take Johnny of her he couldn't do it in the end.

Lol I really doubt EJ will lose custody of Sydney. Nicole isn't going to get it for sure, and Sami can't get it even if she wanted to (or she would've taken Johnny from him too). That said, i don't think Sami should be denied custody. Despite what some people think, Sami has made it clear over and over again that she kept his child from him to protect that baby and that is all. And personally, I think she has always had a right to be concerned. So I don't think Sami should be denied a child for trying to protect her. They're going to end up with joint custody again.

I think that Sami should have the same rights as EJ does with Johnny regarding custody. Sydney should stay with EJ and Sami should get her on the weekends. That would be fair, I think, considering.....

I think they should honor Sami's wishes and NOT have that child growing up with ej and his family. Sami went through so much to protect her baby girl and it would be heartbreaking if she lost her to them.

Protect her from what?

EJ is a great father even Sami said so just look how well Sydney and Johnny have been looked after now just look how Sami and Rafe looked after Grace the child ended up dying i thinks its them Sydney needs to be protected from if i was EJ i wouldn't let Sami anywhere near Sydney until she proves that she is worthy of been a mother to her. Yes Grace's death was tragic i am not saying Sami and Rafe was totally to blame here but i still think if she was with EJ she may of had a better chance of survival he would of made sure she was taken to the doctor staight away when she first started having a few he wouldn't of waited a few weeks like Sami did and just ignored her illness.

To the bolded part, If I had the half an hour to explain this again, I'd do it, but alas, I do not. lol

Custody should be split 50/50 between EJ and Sami logically. I'd say it would be tough on Sydney, but EJ did not really spend a ton of time with her (that we ever saw anyway), Nicole has been the main caregiver. I think Sydney will be more confused by not having Nicole around and suddenly a new mommy in her life.

I see a lot of reasons why EJ may not tell Sami about Sydney, and I wouldn't be at all surprised if this is the route the story goes.

Stefano would never hurt a child and he is a good gran father to Sydney she is lucky to have him in her life. Yes he is bad man and he killed a few people but he loves his children even Lexie loves him he would hurt his kids that is the most important thing. I don't think EJ will find out about Sydney to later on in the storyline i think he and Sami will find together and even if he does i wouldn't blame if he kept the fact that Sydney was their daughter after what Sami did to him regarding Grace. But i don't want him to and i don't think he will what happens i am looking to seeing what ever plays on the my screen.

Of course Ej should not get full custody because he's not even the father of Sydney; Lucas is the father. But of course ejami fans want to believe that days will not reveal that Lucas is actually the father. I think they are much more likely to have Lucas be the father for the big reveal with this story, but I guess we'll just have to wait and see. As for me, Sydney is Lucas's child.

Do you honestly believe Lucas is the father of Sydney?

Thanks for making me laugh that is all i can say.

Lets see Sami only had sex with EJ last year i don't remember her making love to Lucas now how can Lucas possibilty be the father if he and Sami didn't have sex anytime after he returned after been banged up in prison he knew staight away the baby wasn't his when Sami found she was pregnant and Sami did as well.

too funny

both parents should have rights, Sami can move in and have all three little ones together and bring Will too

As far as lucas being the father it is a far strech but with the way the writing has been going down hill i wouldn't doubt it if they used. AND what the heck did everyone watch to day as hope was in danger. I swear my kids would have ran like the wind or something the whole thing was stupid and almost seemed like a repeat of days old, think about it. And why do they keep having trivia question inbetween, gay, what to remind us they copy old story lines! I am very disappointed I have been a long time fan and i am seriously thinking about not watching anymore.

If you've been watching for a long time you would know that the same kind of storyline happened when everyone believed Bo could not possibly be the father of Zach because they never had sex. However, days worked it out and gave a story showing how they did have sex that was never shown until after they revealed it to confirm Bo was the father. They left an opening for it to be possible with Lucas and Sami when everyone was going crazy in the hospital with whatever gas Stefano released. Not to mention there were other times. Go to youtube and you'll find a video showing how it's possible for Lucas to be the father. I'll go find it myself and tell you the name of it. So yes; I do believe Lucas is the father.

funnier and funnier

Yes i know all that it was a lame storyline yes its possible they might do that but if they do then all i will say is goodbye to Days because it would beyond stupid. If you say that then its possible they may make EJ the father of Allie it all about ifs and buts i do agree with you can't rule anything out epecially with these writers. Still think this storyline is all about Ejami their time has come now they are going to be together in the end even Dena hinted Ejami would be the end game go and check her blog on Nov 05 last year she said a long storyline with Sami and Rafe and that we are getting then Ejami there was no talk of Lumi at all.

Just because there was no talk of lumi doesn't mean there wont be a lumi. The actors themselves once said not to rule lumi out. Ali herself seems to be a pretty big lumi fan. She said this in her blog on June 29th this year: [/color]"I loved Will and Lucas's scenes....the lumi fan in me loved how Lucas rushed off to make sure Sami was okay".[color="#000000"] By the way, the youtube video I was talking about is called "Lumi Promo/october 2008/Who's the daddy????". It's done by Luminessgurl. It's nice to know Ali's a lumi supporter and she actually plays on the show.

Your pretty funny yourself Annie.

This is DOOL and ANYTHING is possible...heck...as you mentioned there was Bo and Hope with Zach and NO ONE saw them make love, and I also believe there was an issue with Ciara being theirs wasn't she believed to be conceived by Hope and Patrick? remember the smoke inhalation sex I think it was Belle and Shawn? As for what was happening in the hospital...there was hallucinagenic gas being pumped through the ventilation system in the hospital and there is also the possibility of sleep walking sex...a lot don't remember or don't want to admit but after the Stan wedding fiasco that split up Lumi, Sami started dreaming about Austin and sleeped walked and SOMEHOW found her way from her bedroom into Lucas' apartment and ended up in bed kissing and loving Lucas....hmmm.....if you don't believe me you don't have to simply watch the clip:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9iJRmOba48

it gets funnier and funnier. Lucas denies it vehemently as does Sami, neither one seems to remember anything about it nor cares to, if they can't remember it happening either one of them, must not have been worth much, maybe that's why the poor guy can't hang on to a woman. but dream on. after the Stan fiasco, Lucas dumped her at the altar and said he was disgusted he had ever touched her, how would she end up in his bed after that. Austin was the one that consoled her after that.

Did you even bother seeing the clip Annie....I'm not lying...I don't lie...Austin was consoling her and staying at her apartment and she started dreaming about him but somehow she ended up in bed with Lucas kissing him...managed to walk out of her apartment across the hall and into his bed and starting kissing him....it happened in Jan of 2006. And about constant denials...you know what they say in soapland...constant denials means that it true. Although I don't particularly think that Sydney is Lucas' I don't discount it completely.

okay I watched that clip - I saw two people calling for other people over and over and over. She went over thinking Austin was in that bed and started her maneuvers. Both are horny people and both expressed their need for the person they were calling out for but he wasn't thinking about Sami nor she about Lucas. By the time they realized who was really in the bed, you might say both were worked up and as usual went back to their default system. When you're not near the one that you love, you love the one you're near. It's a real hardship watching them as you have to put up with the slurping that goes with it, not romantic to me but the topic here was who should have custody and I still think EJ and Sami should share so the child has both mother and father preferably in the same house. Lucas will always prefer Carrie and if he could get her back today, she would still be his first choice, Sami always has to come in second with him, of course Mommie comes first.

Yep...but somehow she STILL ended up with Lucas in his apartment, his bed, kissing and loving him and Austin was living with HER....the point was that she sleepwalked into his bed before and she could have done it at the Dimansion too...don't think so...but anyway...the only thing I see here is the Sami is going to want SYDNEY far away from EJ and his fatha when she finds out the truth, there is NO doubt in my mind that Sami will fight him for sole custody and although Stefano might attempt to buy a judge or two to not let that happen...Sami might solicit Vivian's help in order to win

You are right SBlover - Stephano would and has hurt his own children. Stephano would definitely hurt a child if it got in his way. That man is pure evil. But that's not even the point. Sami isn't necessarily worried that Stephano would hurt Johnny or Grace... she didn't want her child to turn out like another DiMera (including EJ) which is why she kept Grace away from the entire family.

doesn't compute, she could have filed for sole custody of Johnny if that was the case and she never did and has always said EJ was a good father, another missed show.

The question is would you want your own children being raised by a guy who has blood on his hand. While it is true that Stefano would never hurt his children, it is beside the point. I would still never ever want my child to be associated with a family who have hurt many innocent people. Would you want that kind of background forced onto your child's life?

I think Ej is going to have a mighty hard time trying to convince Sami that he wasnt in on the baby swapping from the begining. The way he keeps chasing her away from Sydney and his behavior. Heck she already is thinking he was behind her and Rafe's breakup with all his threats against their happiness. Finally Sami is suspicous of his behavior, too bad that didnt carry over to people like Nichole and Meredith.

As for Sydney, nothing is a given. They already have had to play with conception dates. they could make her Lucas' child or they could have had Nichole and Dr Baker bumble around while trying to get the babies swapped and they got them mixed up and didnt actually swap them, so Sydney really is Mia's. Rafe doesnt get to do the Dna test so he doesnt know "for sure". There are a lot of ways they can go with this and they have set the stage for a lot of different options.

wow Annie! That's far stretched. Lucas has always preffered Sami over Carrie since he fell in love with Sami in 2003. He said it himself time and time again. Carrie was a rebound thing. And if I'm not mistaken Lucas shoved a piece of cake into his mom's face at his and Sami's wedding. He then cut her out of his life unless she was willing to accept Sami. I don't think you have your facts straight.

I'm surprised some of you ejami fans haven't had anything to say about the fact that Ali is a lumi fan. I guess that shut some of you guys up.

Carrie has always been the #1 goal in Lucas' life, he even sabotaged his own brother in a business dealing so that Austin would look bad and he would look good. As for shoving a piece of cake in his mother's face, big deal,he was ready to run off to Mexico with her shortly after that, he still believes everything she says before anyone else. the facts are there. That video showed two people horny and needy for sex and when the person they really wanted wasn't available they sought relief with each other. They looked like two pit bulls on a lawn, no carressing, no tenderness just wham wham bam bam. again the topic is Sami and EJ should share custody.

not really, she and Bryan are very old dear friends and she enjoys working with him, have heard her say the same about others - she must really like EJami also cause she directed or orchestrated that big love scene between them.

No it will go the opposite way because the truth always comes out in the end what will happen is Rafe will find out the truth and tell Sami Sydney is her daughter but he will lie and say EJ was in on from the start. Sami may believe that at her first until she reads Doctor Baker's letter saying how him and Nicole were deceiving him from the start. This will be the turning point for Ejami and the death of Safe she will despise for trying make it look like EJ knew all along what Nicole did when he was the flipping victim here. Sami will realise how much she hurt him and she run to be with him and they will reunite and this will send Rafe crazy lets face he has alway been jealous of Sami's feelings for EJ.

Just because she direceted the love scene has nothing to do with liking ejami. She loves directing and has said so before. If you ask me the love scene between ej and sami showed me that she was just on the rebound from not having Lucas. She wasn't showing love; just sex. As soon as Lucas walked in she ran off to go try to save her relationship with Lucas while leaving Ej there alone in bed like the man ***** he is. She never even gave him a second thought. So sorry Annie looks like ejami's loose again.

I actually showed where you could find where Ali said she was a lumi fan. Can any of you give proof that she said she was an ejami fan. I'm afraid I only believe facts that are backed up.

So what its up to the writers and if they think Ejami is the No1 couple they will writer for them i think your just jealous that they are not writing for Lumi anymore. Alison has always loved working with James she been twittering about him so much the past month or so i think she will mind to much been paired with the sexy Brit when it comes down to it.

Oh no I've seen every episode as I tivo them. Did you miss the episode where Sami said she felt she'd already lost Johnny to the DiMera's, and didn't want the same fate to befall Grace? That pretty much explains why she didn't file. And considering that EJ was threatening Sami at the time, why would she have? She's been terrified of EJ off and on for years now. I blame the writers for making her so unbelievably wishy washy. Now we have the Sami that should have been on screen all along, you know, the one that wants nothing to do with EJ romantically.

Yes indeed, Ali is a Lumi fan. So what? It has absolutely no bearing on the show and what direction they are going with the Sami character. Ali is not The Show; she is merely a part of it. Let’s wait and see what the writers have in store for us.

she has always been quite comfortable around EJ, in the park, she started up the conversation mentioning or asking if he had received the pictures of Johnny she had sent him. Now why would she even send him pictures if she feels the way you say, doesn't compute. Wonder why she just didn't turn around and go in the opposite direction if she is so hateful of him, why even say hello. she felt relaxed enough to ask him about Nicole and Rafe, boy is she scared of him.

Always? Did she look comfy to you when EJ was raping her? Did she look comfy while being set up for EJ's murder by EJ himself? Did she look comfy when EJ was scaring the living hell out of her and finally put her in the hospital? Or maybe you think she looked all comfy when EJ was trying to scare her death in the hospital (and putting the twins lives in danger as well). Did she look comfortable at all when he forced her to marry him? Gotta love that she wore black don't you!

Always been quite comfortable my patootie. LOL

I guess they missed these episodes!! lol

Hey, but isn't this subject about the custody of SYDNEY??

I think that Sydney should end up with her MOTHER, not the father that has been a dickhead to Sami at every stinking turn.. He already has his hands in screwwwing with Johnny, which I'm sure will end up one screwwed up kid because the moron refuses to allow him to be with his mother and twin sister.. This s/l is just morbid and wrong...

have seen her look very comfortable with him, many times. Did she look comfortable in that death chamber or going over a cliff or going thru a glass door or waiting at the hospital while Austin and Lucas were waiting for Carrie to make up her mind who she was going to choose. Did she look happy when she was left at the altar - back and back, it goes on and on and on.

UMMMM, what does Lucas have to do with this... I remember one VERY BEAUTIFUL WEDDING, with Lucas and that was the last one before this dickhead decided to force her into annulling it and marry his sorry a$$$... Come on now this is about Sydney, not LUMI... ARGGGGGGGGGGGG Leave Lucas out of the equation, please and focus on Sydney..

I think that they should have joint custody, same as with Johnny.

Don`t be siily, Ali is just trying to please fans. Does it really matter what fanbase she is supporting? I don`t think so, she does`nt write the show, so her being a fan of Lumi does`nt change anything. As a Ejami fan, I try not to reply to nonsense but your post pushed it.

DITTO

Looks like Ali being a lumi fan got to some of you. It seems to me that many of you ejami fans focus more on lumi than you do ejami. I guess you guys are just worried about lumi, as well you should be.
Why don't you guys focus more on the ej and sami forum? It seems like in every topic ejami fans try to bash lumi. I like it because I know that means you guys are fearful of lumi. I'm not worried about ejami because I know that even if they have another roll in the hay she'll leave him with his pants down and run off to her true love Lucas.

seems you are describing yourselves. Lumi is not a threat to anyone.

You are too funny.

that I am really funny, people in the club seem to think so.